Not worth the heart-ache and discomfort. I hate my hormones.
Yesterday, my life's like, 'Uh-oh, pop quiz!' Today it's like, 'rain of toads.'
Xander ,'Beneath You'
Natter Area 51: The Truthiness Is in Here
Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
Allyson - May 26, 2007 4:37:29 pm PDT #9413 of 10001
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica
DavidS - May 26, 2007 4:39:12 pm PDT #9414 of 10001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."
Married neighbors are definitely on the no-go list. Twice!
He's separated! I don't see the problem with dating neighbors either. I never see my neighbors. It's not like a work place romance where you have to see them.
Why cut down on your pool of available people to meet? That is not a red flag, that's self sabotage. You're never going to find a person if you start cutting out all the psychopaths and people with lizard tongues neighbors and such.
§ ita § - May 26, 2007 4:40:04 pm PDT #9415 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.
Where's the risk taking? Where's the action? Where's the fun?
Why don't you go out and risk take and come back and tell us how it went?
Allyson - May 26, 2007 4:42:05 pm PDT #9416 of 10001
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica
ahhhhh ha ha. This is reason ##54367 why I love ita.
And wrote a story about her. Which is my soon to be on the shelves book.
msbelle - May 26, 2007 4:43:43 pm PDT #9417 of 10001
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb
separated = still married. and some of us do see our neighbors. and married guy, maybe zip it.
Jesse - May 26, 2007 4:43:46 pm PDT #9418 of 10001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.
I never see my neighbors. It's not like a work place romance where you have to see them.
The only neighbors I ever see are the neighbors I see all the time. So I'm sure there's some guy I could date and then avoid, but I'll never meet him!
watching the Mets game, it is raining really hard.
Um, not here, right? That reminds me, I had yet another "who are these people" moment with yet another coworker the other day, when one told me she doesn't really follow baseball, she just has an MLB widget on her desktop. Yeah, OK.
Laga - May 26, 2007 4:43:47 pm PDT #9419 of 10001
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.
The problem with dating neighbors is when they turn out to be psycho you have to move.
Lee - May 26, 2007 4:43:56 pm PDT #9420 of 10001
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.
Ugh.
I think my request to leave the bacon off my spinach salad confused the pizza place so much that they put double bacon on the thing.
msbelle - May 26, 2007 4:45:19 pm PDT #9421 of 10001
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb
oh yeah, not raining here - raining in FL.
Scrappy - May 26, 2007 4:46:05 pm PDT #9422 of 10001
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.
Depends on how LONG he's been separated.
Signed,
Current Husband Had Been Separated Two Years When I Met Him
P.S. However, dating neighbors could be awfully uncomfortable.