A ghost? What's the deal? Is every frat on this campus haunted? And if so, why do people keep coming to these parties, cause it's not the snacks.

Xander ,'Dirty Girls'


Natter Area 51: The Truthiness Is in Here  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


brenda m - May 20, 2007 1:51:55 pm PDT #8403 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Yeah, I thought that was a real I'm-going-to-fuck-this-up freakout at the wedding. This being the wedding, not the marriage. Remember, Cristina doesn't fail well. And she doesn't do things she's not good at. So this whole wedding - I think she never really got why it was so important, but still, accepted that it was. And found herself completely out of her depth. She would never make a mistake like forgetting about the vows when she scrubbed in if it was something surgery related.

I'm trying to find some more sympathy for Burke, because, you know, it's not a crime to care about your wedding. And god knows Cristina can't be easy to live with. But I feel like he grabbed onto doubts whenever she didn't hit it out of the park on all these things, without seeing how far she'd come just to almost get it right. And maybe that's it - Cristina doesn't fail. So Burke sees her failing (or, rather, not doing it perfectly) and figures she obviously doesn't care enough. Which - doesn't really make me like him any more. So much for that little exercise.


Kat - May 20, 2007 2:04:01 pm PDT #8404 of 10001
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

Also WRT GA, I keep forgetting to note that Marti Noxon is an executive producer.


Kat - May 20, 2007 2:14:48 pm PDT #8405 of 10001
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

WRT Burke. I don't know. He acted rashly or he thought about what his mom had said and took the opening to act on his doubts. Poor Cristina.


-t - May 20, 2007 2:18:17 pm PDT #8406 of 10001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

GA: I think Burke honestly thought that in trying to be more what he wanted Christina was diminishing herself. Which, not really his call I'd say, and possibly a rationalization for his own unexamined doubts, but ta least trying not to be self-centered.


Cashmere - May 20, 2007 2:22:28 pm PDT #8407 of 10001
Now tagless for your comfort.

Holy crap. All of my Vegas stories from this trip are bathroom related!

We went with a woman who HAD to see all of the top 10 bathrooms in Vegas from the show they did on the Travel Channel. For reals. I think we managed to see one with her before we struck out on our own.

Seriously? She was so freaking yucky.

If she was that nonchalant about her own hygiene, why so picky about the stall?


Jesse - May 20, 2007 2:27:58 pm PDT #8408 of 10001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I confess to taking a picture inside the bathroom at the ... Paris? Hotel in Vegas. It was so pretty!

Nothing I hate more than people who leave their pee all over the bathroom. It serves her right that she took some with her.


Kat - May 20, 2007 2:29:52 pm PDT #8409 of 10001
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

-t, I can totally see that. Also, I think Burke was relative sure (mistakenly) that Cristina might not go through with it. (yes certainty and might aren't mixy) It could have been his doubts and his desire to save face. better to leave then be left and all that.

If she was that nonchalant about her own hygiene, why so picky about the stall?

Exactly. I was just stunned and sort of aghast.


Hil R. - May 20, 2007 2:30:22 pm PDT #8410 of 10001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

The only time I can recall taking a picture inside a bathroom was at The Madonna Inn in San Luis Obispo.

There was some restaurant in NYC that we went to last year that had an entirely black bathroom, including black toilet paper. Can't remember where that was, but it was freaky. Someone told me about a club where the stall doors are made of glass that fogs up when the door is closed and clears when it's opened. I'm not sure how comfortable I'd feel there.


Kat - May 20, 2007 2:33:36 pm PDT #8411 of 10001
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

Nothing I hate more than people who leave their pee all over the bathroom.

Oh completely. But I wanted to say to her, "You're profoundly yucky. And I can't believe you almost peed on my foot even though I was in another stall. Perhaps you don't have the quads to perch above the seat, but, lady, you don't even have the aim."


Laura - May 20, 2007 2:34:47 pm PDT #8412 of 10001
Our wings are not tired.

The bathroom where I am staying in Dallas has an ordinary bathroom to look at. Then I took a shower. I never want to leave. Never have I had so much water pressure in a shower either in a hotel or home. Heaven.