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Spike's Bitches 35: We Got a History  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


vw bug - Apr 01, 2007 3:37:07 pm PDT #3281 of 10003
Mostly lurking...

I, on the other hand, am the queen of leaving things undone.

Looks over at pile of fabric for projects and thinks about all the fabric I bought for new projects yesterday. Oh, yes. This is me.


Amy - Apr 01, 2007 3:39:26 pm PDT #3282 of 10003
Because books.

Plus, I can't just leave things undone if I'm in the middle of something to go somewhere else.

I, on the other hand, am the queen of leaving things undone.

Time drives me crazy. I can never accurately estimate how long something is going to take, so if I have to leave the house in a half hour, I usually won't do *anything* while I'm waiting because I can't tell if I'll be able to finish it.

And whenever I have a long day with nothing to do (usually only when Stephen is away with the kids), I imagine all the things I'll be able to do, and then do maybe a quarter of them before I realize half the day has passed with me, apparently, staring into space.


Pix - Apr 01, 2007 3:39:30 pm PDT #3283 of 10003
The status is NOT quo.

Hallowell says it's purely a matter of extent and duration that separates true ADHD from what he calls the American ADHD culture. In fact, he wrote another book for people who don't have ADHD technically but suffer from our cultural obsessions of multitasking, caffeinating and overwhelming ourselves.

Yeah, I know, Hallowell likes carrots.


vw bug - Apr 01, 2007 3:41:59 pm PDT #3284 of 10003
Mostly lurking...

Hallowell says it's purely a matter of extent and duration that separates true ADHD from what he calls the American ADHD culture.in fact, he wrote another book for people who don't have ADHD technically but suffer from our cultural obsessions of multitasking, caffeinating and overwhelming ourselves.

Ha! Dad was just telling me about that one today.


beth b - Apr 01, 2007 4:57:00 pm PDT #3285 of 10003
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

Just in case - I am pretty sure that I don't have ADHD after reading all the descriptions. there are lots of things I can say - occasionally or even sometimes, but the over all feeling is that nope, that's not me. so those of you that think-- maybe- it is possible.


-t - Apr 01, 2007 5:26:35 pm PDT #3286 of 10003
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

WebMD ADHD assessment: [link]

Might require login, I forget.


Cass - Apr 01, 2007 5:31:06 pm PDT #3287 of 10003
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

I seriously spent my first week on meds going "wait, you mean other people have been aware of the passage of time all along? AND THEY NEVER TOLD ME?"
Wildest feeling in the world to finally figure out what "normal" is (for something else, but same feeling of THIS IS WHAT IT SHOULD BE LIKE). Of course, the one med I found that did had side effects to the point I had to stop taking it after two weeks.

I am still wistful for those days though. They were lovely.


Cass - Apr 01, 2007 5:36:37 pm PDT #3288 of 10003
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

WebMD ADHD assessment
Good god, *that* was depressing. And I don't actually think I am ADHD, I think it was just picking up other things.

Note to self: Internet tests will make you crazy crazier. Even that "What sports car are you?" one.


Pix - Apr 01, 2007 5:37:57 pm PDT #3289 of 10003
The status is NOT quo.

Yeah, I am way wary of Internet tests since so many different diagnoses have overlapping symptoms.


beth b - Apr 01, 2007 5:40:10 pm PDT #3290 of 10003
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

I took the test - I don't like the way a lot of it was worded - I cam e in where I expected - basically not having it. However, the no you don't have it was under so many layers of see your doctor, here are all the negatives, and - that I almost missed that part. And second - II really think frequency and severity of symptoms is what will determine if you have ADD/ADHD. I need to look at Kristin's book. DH sometimes wonders if he has it, but I think he is more suffering from the way things work her( as in US) or in his job