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Rob - Mar 03, 2003 10:55:53 am PST #3344 of 10000

I think some of us just want to not be able to see people, without them needing to know about it.

Then you wouldn't provide feedback. Then they wouldn't know that you, particularly, were ignoring them. Or do you dislike to the idea of allowing folks to know that they are speaking to a room full of people with their backs turned and fingers stuffed in their ears?


Rob - Mar 03, 2003 10:57:37 am PST #3345 of 10000

Blocking all posts from a user is the only thing that makes any sense to me.


msbelle - Mar 03, 2003 10:57:54 am PST #3346 of 10000
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

Jon's idea sounds great. I do not have strong feelings about the wording used.

I, for one, don't want to know why people are ignoring me. And I really don't think I want to know who is ignoring me.


§ ita § - Mar 03, 2003 11:00:02 am PST #3347 of 10000
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

what percentage of their posts are being ignored

Then by that you mean what %age of users are ignoring them? Since all of their posts or none of their posts will be viewed.


amych - Mar 03, 2003 11:00:10 am PST #3348 of 10000
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

Rob, I have to say, I very strongly dislike the feedbacky parts of your proposal. A user filter should be between me and my god. Or my profile, whatev.

We have a good tradition around here of pointing out when people are out of line. We manage to do it more civilly than most places do. If I want to tell someone why they're pissing me off, that's best handled out in the open. If I just like the quiet and I want to filter them for my own headspace reasons, that's something I don't even want them to know. My filter isn't for them to be given corrections, it's for me. And even more strongly, I think that telling people "7 users are currently filtering you" is ugly and paranoia-inducing for the same reasons I absolutely hated whuffie or whatever the hell it was called.


§ ita § - Mar 03, 2003 11:01:06 am PST #3349 of 10000
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

My idea of Marcie is for me to make the board I want. Just me. Not to make the posters be the people I want. I would have a fit at feedback.


Am-Chau Yarkona - Mar 03, 2003 11:01:34 am PST #3350 of 10000
I bop to Wittgenstein. -- Nutty

Or do you dislike to the idea of allowing folks to know that they are speaking to a room full of people with their backs turned and fingers stuffed in their ears?

I have no problem with the fact that people might be ignoring me. That's a fact of life. However, I for one never want to have my suspisons confirmed. I don't want a message that says 'you are being ignored'.

Edit: or, what they just said.


Sophia Brooks - Mar 03, 2003 11:04:56 am PST #3351 of 10000
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

I think what Rob is proposing is very much like Jim's whiffle/whuffie/whatever.

I think it is probably something that we will get to talk about in the 3rd round of things, although I sensed at WX that most people were against it.


Jesse - Mar 03, 2003 11:06:49 am PST #3352 of 10000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

And even more strongly, I think that telling people "7 users are currently filtering you" is ugly and paranoia-inducing for the same reasons I absolutely hated whuffie or whatever the hell it was called.

Yeah, ditto. Especially if someone just annoys me for no good reason. There's nothing to "call" them on, and other people like them a lot. It's just my issue, and I'd rather not get into it, or cause the person and upset.

That said, I'm pretty sure I'll never hide anyone, because I'm too nosy -- I'd always click through to see their posts! (I tried it once on TT.)


Dana - Mar 03, 2003 11:07:55 am PST #3353 of 10000
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

optionally to provide them with feedback on why you don't want to read their posts.

A second goal is to allow Phoenix users to know what percentage of their posts are being ignored, and to read feedback, if available, about why they are being ignored.

Oh, boy, do I not want to get into this. It was bad enough at TT (the entire board, not necessarily our threads) when someone would announce "I'm ENUFing you!" and then we had to deal with the ENUFed person either saying "I don't care! I'm a rebel!" or "Yeah, I'm ENUFing you too, you freak!" and then 19 people ENUFing the other people out of sheer irritation.

I don't see the purpose of a filter as behavior modification. I see it as a way to make my life and my board experience easier.