This is a time of celebration, so sit still and be quiet.

Snyder ,'Chosen'


Natter Five-O: Book 'Em, Danno.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


-t - Feb 20, 2007 10:36:54 am PST #2251 of 10001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I bought some Hollywood Diet Cookies while I was impulse shopping yesterday (looking for allergy meds, so my resistance was way low and the thought of being on a cookie diet was so very appealing). Each cookie is supposedly like eating a whole meal. They are the only sweets I have around right now and I had an actual meal for lunch, so I probably shouldn't have meal replacing cookie for dessert.

Vanilla flavored Benadryl strip is kind of like dessert. That'll do.


Kathy A - Feb 20, 2007 10:38:28 am PST #2252 of 10001
We're very stretchy. - Connie Neil

I just made my first official step to applying to the MLS program--I faxed Marquette a request for my transcript to be sent to Champaign. Eeep!

Now to start filling out the application tonight, after I update my resume (I have to include that with the application).


§ ita § - Feb 20, 2007 10:45:55 am PST #2253 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Couple question: How much revealing do you expect from your SO? If their close friend tells them a secret, are you surprised if you don't hear it?

Conversely, when you say something offhand to one bit of a dyad, are you surprised when the other bit knows? If you frame it as a secret, is it with the understanding that, okay, the SO will hear too?


Cashmere - Feb 20, 2007 10:49:00 am PST #2254 of 10001
Now tagless for your comfort.

Saw this coming as clearly as the doll being guillotined on last night's Studio 60.


Lee - Feb 20, 2007 10:49:10 am PST #2255 of 10001
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

I finally woke up enough to realize exactly how bored I am.

shrift speaks for me, though I did have the added fun of getting to tell the entire office that because of network issues, they are SOL if they need me to do my job with anything like efficiency for at least 2 weeks.


flea - Feb 20, 2007 10:50:36 am PST #2256 of 10001
information libertarian

For couples that are seriously committed or married, I assume that what one knows, the other knows. Not that every couple shares everything, but my expectation is that they may. Unless I specifically say "don't tell Partner." Now, just dating is a whole 'nother story.

In my own relationship, I can't think of any secrets we haven't shared, but we also tend to have low-drama family and friends, so not so many secrets, really.

I wimped out and am getting mr. flea to pick up the kids. He'll be later than the usual pickup, so now I have guilt. Joy.


-t - Feb 20, 2007 10:54:00 am PST #2257 of 10001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Go, Kathy! Apply like the wind!


Sean K - Feb 20, 2007 10:54:32 am PST #2258 of 10001
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty

How does one join the Illuminati?

Bury $5,000 US in a cigar box in your back yard. Our underground agents will collect it shortly.


Jesse - Feb 20, 2007 10:55:36 am PST #2259 of 10001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

flea, you're sick, not wimpy.

Not that every couple shares everything, but my expectation is that they may. Unless I specifically say "don't tell Partner."

This. And even then, I wouldn't be shocked if they did, unless it was something SERIOUS. On the flip side, my girlfriends tell me things about their partners that I'm sure the partners think are secrets, if not explicitly so.

Go Kathy, go!


§ ita § - Feb 20, 2007 10:56:31 am PST #2260 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

my girlfriends tell me things about their partners that I'm sure the partners think are secrets, if not explicitly so.

Oh, yeah, and this. It's a weird matrix of confidences.