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Spike's Bitches 34: They're All Slime and Antlers  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


JZ - Feb 26, 2007 6:57:04 am PST #7422 of 10001
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

Group President said to The Boy, "Yeah, but -- what do YOU know about marketing? I mean, look at the way you dress!"

Seriously. What the fucking fuck? Not that every single thing he said isn't making me want to ass him in the ear, but this is possibly the @@est of all.

Clearly he has a burning urge to be a committee of one. You should stop standing in his way and give him what he wants.


Vortex - Feb 26, 2007 6:59:17 am PST #7423 of 10001
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

The Boy reiterated that he thinks a clean, simple design is effective, and Group President said to The Boy, "Yeah, but -- what do YOU know about marketing? I mean, look at the way you dress!"

Are you fucking kidding me? Jesus, he’s lucky that nobody just bitchslapped him right then and there.

I've lasted the longest, because I am apparently a glutton for punishment.

wait, I thought that you . . oh, right.

Steph, resign. send a politely worded email that says that the communication issues and lack of respect for your professional expertise have reached a level where you feel that you cannot be an effective member of the team and you wish them luck in finding a replacement for you.


tommyrot - Feb 26, 2007 7:01:40 am PST #7424 of 10001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

Steph, resign. send a politely worded email that says that the communication issues and lack of respect for your professional expertise have reached a level where you feel that you cannot be an effective member of the team and you wish them luck in finding a replacement for you.

ITA. Your relationship with the group president is already so poisoned that even if you resolve this issue there will be more stress and trouble in the future.


§ ita § - Feb 26, 2007 7:02:00 am PST #7425 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

I'm with the quitting crowd, Steph. It's pretty clear you can't change his mind or teach (even inform) him of anything.

But you can make sure everyone else gets a clear headsup, and one for the record. Fuck code. Be civil, be clear, and flip your hair in his direction on your way out of Committee-land.


Fred Pete - Feb 26, 2007 7:03:03 am PST #7426 of 10001
Ann, that's a ferret.

I'll join in, Steph. It's time to cut your losses.


tommyrot - Feb 26, 2007 7:03:49 am PST #7427 of 10001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

Be civil, be clear, and flip your hair in his direction on your way out of Committee-land.

Perhaps flouncing would be appropriate.


Steph L. - Feb 26, 2007 7:04:47 am PST #7428 of 10001
I look more rad than Lutheranism

I've lasted the longest, because I am apparently a glutton for punishment.

wait, I thought that you . . oh, right.

Heh. Only *some* kinds of punishment.

Steph, resign. send a politely worded email that says that the communication issues and lack of respect for your professional expertise have reached a level where you feel that you cannot be an effective member of the team and you wish them luck in finding a replacement for you.

Yeah, I'm thinking that this is my plan.


Topic!Cindy - Feb 26, 2007 7:06:29 am PST #7429 of 10001
What is even happening?

And make sure you cc all the committee members.


Lee - Feb 26, 2007 7:06:38 am PST #7430 of 10001
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

Are you fucking kidding me? Jesus, he’s lucky that nobody just bitchslapped him right then and there.

What she said! What a Fucktard, and Wenchface and all sorts of other Very bad things.

Steph - he sounds like he sucks more than Lee.

Hey NOW. Was that nice?


-t - Feb 26, 2007 7:09:21 am PST #7431 of 10001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Tep, in your shoes I would be tempted to quit the committee and then offer your paid services to create the newsletter just like he wants it at an hourly rate that is at least (fair market rate)+(asshole surcharge) just to find out if it's the fact that you are volunteering that makes him see your work as unprofessional. Because I am an experimentalist and don't have to consider actual limits to your time in coming up with this scenario.