See, in my fantasy, when I'm kissing you... you're kissing me. It's okay. I can wait.

Oz ,'First Date'


Spike's Bitches 34: They're All Slime and Antlers  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Laga - Jan 14, 2007 7:27:15 am PST #731 of 10001
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

What is with the nightmares last night? I dreamt I drove my car off an embankment into the ocean.

ION my glee at last night's discovery of yahoo messenger capabilities on my phone is now matched by my despair at discovering you have to sign out, you can't just exit the function. I used up 1000 minutes in my sleep.

They're having another conference next Friday

so back to San Diego again?


Topic!Cindy - Jan 14, 2007 7:29:43 am PST #732 of 10001
What is even happening?

What was especially charming is that my subconscious took my current anxieties about Drew and combined them with my prior trauma about divorce to make a nightmare mixed drink. Which has left me hungover and shaky. FEH. My subconscious is on the list.
Oh, Kristin. Your subconscious in on my list, too. Sheeeesh. The divorce is still fresh, too. That's a big life change, and no matter how much you know it was right, it's still hard.

Much the same. His mom is still in the hospital. They're having another conference next Friday to determine options for her going home eventually. His dad seems to still be in denial about the fact that some kind of permenant care is going to be necessary (though I think he knows it's inevitable) and no one wants to talk openly about any of it.

I'm so sorry. This must be so hard on all of them, and on you, because you're probably in the Other-Families-Are-So-Different Zone, too. The differences between dh's family and mine still surprise me, when there's a crisis.

Extra love to you and Drew.

Seriously?
Seriously. Well, I did take Motrin. They offered me some prescription (some common one -- narcotic, I think -- but the name is totally escaping me, now). I asked if nausea was a side-effect. They said it was possible. I said, "No, thanks. Got any more of those ice pads?"

And the last time I needed a root canal, there was a delay between the diagnosis of need and the endontist appointment. My regular dentist gave me a script for [something related to oxycodone]. I filled it, because it's good to have in case of emergency, but never took it. I ended up throwing it away, when it expired. I hate to take stuff.


Cass - Jan 14, 2007 7:36:45 am PST #733 of 10001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

This must be so hard on all of them, and on you, because you're probably in the Other-Families-Are-So-Different Zone, too.
What Cindy said. It's all still very new family-wise and that just adds more and different stress. I hope it is easier than expected both in what happens and in finally talking about it.


Sean K - Jan 14, 2007 7:39:51 am PST #734 of 10001
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty

My regular dentist gave me a script for [something related to oxycodone]. I filled it, because it's good to have in case of emergency, but never took it. I ended up throwing it away, when it expired. I hate to take stuff.

BOGGLE! Pain is BAD! Pain meds are GOOOOOOOD!

Kristin, I'm thinking about all of you down there.


Jessica - Jan 14, 2007 7:42:56 am PST #735 of 10001
If I want to become a cloud of bats, does each bat need a separate vaccination?

Pain is BAD! Pain meds are GOOOOOOOD!

I'm with Cindy here -- most prescription pain meds' side effects are worse for me than the pain. I'd rather be sore than vomiting any day.


Lee - Jan 14, 2007 7:44:12 am PST #736 of 10001
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

Me too.

I took exactly one of the pain meds I got for my tooth infection/root canal (I think it was vicodin), then gave the rest to Cass. Stuff made me feel gross, and the pain wasn't that bad.


Sean K - Jan 14, 2007 7:49:14 am PST #737 of 10001
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty

I am a great big wimp who will now back slowly out of the scary S&M room....


-t - Jan 14, 2007 7:50:25 am PST #738 of 10001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I hardly ever take pain meds. Whatever they gave me when I had my wisdom teeth out wouldn't stay down, and I even forget that, say, Motrin is an option when I have a headache most of the time.

That said, the Percocet my doctor gave me in the E.R. a couple of years ago was very nice indeed. Everything was just fine for a while.


Pix - Jan 14, 2007 7:52:08 am PST #739 of 10001
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

This must be so hard on all of them, and on you, because you're probably in the Other-Families-Are-So-Different Zone, too.

This. I feel completely impotent, and I hate that feeling. I hope I'm at least making it all a little easier for Drew.

Pain is BAD! Pain meds are GOOOOOOOD!
I am in the "pain meds are my friend" category as well.

Which is why I took 600mg of ibuprofin last night after I slipped on the kitchen floor and slammed to the ground. Cass, Drew says I'm beginning to rival you in terms of needing a padded hamster ball.


Pix - Jan 14, 2007 7:52:14 am PST #740 of 10001
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

Hiccup.