Spike's Bitches 34: They're All Slime and Antlers
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Lee, thank you.
beth jobma and calm~ma to Matt. He so deserves this, and he deserves to enjoy it, too. I will keep the bath idea in mind.
Nora, your weight management plan sounds so sane! I love it.
You know, Cindy, now would be a good time to take advantage of the fact that you're an active member of a church and get a little help from that community. I'm sure you've done your share of do-gooding. Just having somebody stop by and help with a few things today or tomorrow would probably make a difference.
There's really not much to do. I've been basically housebound with sick kids for the past 18 days. My laundry has seldom been in such good shape. I mean I've even been folding and putting away laundry while it's still warm. It's madness!
Hmmm. Maybe I've upset the delicate eco-system of the house.
P-C, it could turn out to be an okay compromise. You can send out the P-Cish biodata after initial contact. It's not the first filter (which would be ideal), but it could be a useful second layer.
This is true, and really, if the girl isn't the first to look at the biodata, the cute, customized P-C biodata might filter out girls you don't want filtered out, just because their relatives don't *get* you.
Job~ma, Matt. And sanity~ma to both Matt and Beth.
Health~ma with a good dose of sanity~ma to Cindy and family.
Loquat Extract is teh bomb for coughs.
Oh Cindy. {{{Family}}} Much get better~ ma and quick recovery ~ ma to youse guys. I'll be thinking of you guys all day.
jobma and calmma~ to Matt. Hey! Company! Go Matt! Choose Matt!
Go Nora with the saneness of the weight loss plan! Where do I sign up?
And P-C, what Cindy said here:
if the girl isn't the first to look at the biodata, the cute, customized P-C biodata might filter out girls you don't want filtered out, just because their relatives don't *get* you.
Does make sense. And, nice compromise. (But your mom really needs a class in diplomacy and niceness to her children. IJS.)
This is true, and really, if the girl isn't the first to look at the biodata, the cute, customized P-C biodata might filter out girls you don't want filtered out, just because their relatives don't *get* you.
Oh, good point. Good point. Cindy is wise.
Not ridiculous, Cindy. You've been through a lot the last few days, as has Ben. I hope you both get some relief soon.
This, exactly. Also yes on the cold bath. It's miserable for the sickee, but also effective.
Oh David?
Her bangs look great - leave them alone!
Yeah ... those pictures were from December. Her bangs are still horrid from the January cut. Jay of the leaving pills around fame said, "It's a good thing mullets are somewhat back in style."
Thanks, guys.
And {{{{Cindy}}}} {{{{{{Ben}}}}}} I hope the little guy gets better posthaste.
Go Nora with the saneness of the weight loss plan! Where do I sign up?
Heh. I have been inspired by 2 books. One, mentioned by beth above, is
Mindless Eating: Why We Eat More Than We Think. >[link]
It's been incredibly helpful for my mindset. I'm so much less OBSESSED by food and dieting and whatever and more focused on my behavior and habits and perceptions.
The second book is
YOU: On a Diet
[link] , which is very useful in understanding why your body and brain act and react the way they do to foods. It has an actual diet plan in there, but I am not following that. The tip to walk 30 minutes, every day, no exceptions, is a good one, that I strive for (some days better than others.)
Bear in mind, I still have miles and miles to go till I'm at a healthy weight! So, you know, fat person talking.
I've been wanting to pick up YOU: On a Diet. It looks pretty interesting. I've been doing the Weight Watchers Core diet lately, which seems to work pretty well for me. (Basically, there's a list of foods that you can eat -- fruits and veggies, beans, whole grains, fat-free dairy, lean meat -- and then you're allowed 35 points per week of whatever else you want. Some weeks, the 35 points works out to little things at each meal -- sugar on my oatmeal, real cheese rather than fat-free in a casserole, a whole wheat roll with dinner -- and sometimes I save it up to cover going out to dinner and drinks on the weekend.)
I've been thinking about trying to learn another foreign language. After being in Italy this winter, I wanted to learn Italian, but I've been thinking that, considering my choice of academic field, German would probably be more practical.
{{Cindy and Ben}} Fever~ma to the munchkin. I hope you all get relief, soon.
{{P-C}} You're doing a great job with your mother, even if it doesn't seem like it. Just the fact that you bring up your wishes and needs with her is a good starting point. The big thing to work on is terminating the conversation when it goes where you don't want it to, in a nice way. If it helps, write down a list of ways to end the conversation amicably, even if she doesn't want to. Eventually, she will get the point. It may take you a while to get to this point, but you are bucking your own upbringing as much as her cultural prejudices. It takes time to get out of old patterns and establish new ones.
Job~ma and stress~ma to Matt, beth.
{{}} to your friend, sj. That's a tough row to hoe.
Cass, get pictures! We don't get enough ass around here and we're counting on you to put out.
