Can we move forward and talk about procedure?
That's what msbelle's forthcoming proposal is about. I think it's moot to talk about it before it becomes officially open.
When you look back at this, in the three seconds it'll take you to turn to dust, I think you'll find the mistake was touching my stuff.
Buffy ,'Lessons'
Bureaucracy 1: Like Kafka, Only Funnier
A thread to discuss naming threads, board policy, new thread suggestions, and anything else that has to do with board administration and maintenance. Guaranteed to include lively debate and polls. Natter discouraged, but not deleted.
Current Stompy Feet: ita, Jon B, DXMachina, P.M. Marcontell, Liese S., amych
§ ita § - Apr 14, 2003 2:16:59 pm PDT #9911 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.
Cindy - Apr 14, 2003 2:17:34 pm PDT #9912 of 10001
Nobody
And I think that Zoe's pattern on posting is not respectful of the community, up to and including today's post that likens us to vengeful zealots.
Steph, the thread has been very busy which is the only reason I'm asking the following: Did you see a page or two back, where someone pointed out "vengeful zealots" was a phrase Matt had used in his recap. I think it's possible she was making a joke.
Steph L. - Apr 14, 2003 2:20:03 pm PDT #9913 of 10001
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe
Cindy, I did see that. And I knew in the Angel thread that she was quoting from Matt's recap. I just don't think that it's an excuse for her rudeness. I don't think it was a joke.
And I don't mind you asking me if I saw that post, because this thread certainly has been busy. That was nice of you to think of that. Thanks.
Cindy - Apr 14, 2003 2:20:18 pm PDT #9914 of 10001
Nobody
Excuse me. I *don't* think it was resolved. She called the Buffistas vengeful zealots. Just because she took it from Matt's recap doesn't mean it was acceptable.
Sorry, Steph, I wasn't sure if you had seen it. I understand if it's not resolved for you. That comment was made when I thought it was. Sorry for the confusion.
edited to add context to the above, because Teppy and I are suddenly playing two steps forward, one back, to catch up to each other.
and to add - cool.
smonster - Apr 14, 2003 2:22:00 pm PDT #9915 of 10001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.
Somebody. Come. Turn. Off. My. Computer. (amyth, you are closest!)
I was hugging the first amendment not because it necessarily applies here, but because of the philosophy it represents.
Allow me to reiterate. I don't know how to make myself clearer, so I should probably stop, but it feels like people aren't understanding me. I guess they just don't agree.
If someone on this board says, "Hey, I think whips and chains are cool!"
I think they should be allowed to say that.
If someone says, "The idea of whips and chains totally freaks me out."
I think they should be allowed to say that, too.
If someone says, "Everyone who uses whips and chains in sexual acts is clearly lacking in morality and is going to hell"
That is offensive, and justifies disciplinary action, especially on a board where lots of people buy handcuffs in bulk.
The first two express personal preferences. The third is a moral judgment. I don't judge others' preferences and I expect them to respect mine.
FWIW, I didn't see any of the whole Christianity debate, so I have no idea what the hell that's all about. If someone wants to send me a link, grand.
Arrgh.
Dana - Apr 14, 2003 2:23:25 pm PDT #9916 of 10001
"I'm useless alone." // "We're all useless alone. It's a good thing you're not alone."
If someone says, "The idea of whips and chains totally freaks me out."
I think they should be allowed to say that, too.
I do too. The difference I see between that and what Zoe said would be:
"The idea of whips and chains is disgusting."
Cindy - Apr 14, 2003 2:23:55 pm PDT #9917 of 10001
Nobody
That's what msbelle's forthcoming proposal is about. I think it's moot to talk about it before it becomes officially open.
Is she waiting for someone to open Lightbulb, or are we waiting for msbelle to first post in Press?
amyth - Apr 14, 2003 2:24:31 pm PDT #9918 of 10001
And none of us deserving the cruelty or the grace -- Leonard Cohen
sm, if I come turn off your computer, how will you do your job?
P.M. Marc - Apr 14, 2003 2:24:35 pm PDT #9919 of 10001
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear
I think in my case, I'm seeing more of the ita thing, less of a specific thing. It's a generalized problem, which is what's making it tricky.
Cindy - Apr 14, 2003 2:25:39 pm PDT #9920 of 10001
Nobody