we haven't had our first vote yet, our new system has only been in place for what---less than a week---and already we have a back log of issues to vote on.

Actually, we hadn't even gotten the thread created before we had a backlog of issues to deal with.

And if it weren't for that fact, I'd make a new proposal.

I really thought I saw naked Faith put forward as a proposal.

You did, and, if I actually thought there would be any possibility of our voting on it would do any good, I'd go all James Carville & Marlee Matilin on it.

I'd go all James Carville & Marlee Matilin on it

OK, I know I'm going to feel dumb when this reference is explained, but, huh?

I am so sick of seeing things put up for a vote that it isn't even funny. I no longer enjoy visiting Buffistas much. But that's my ish. Clearly Wolfram and others are liking the whole voting thing a lot more than I am.

I think that a lot of stuff is getting proposed now because the system isn't totally clear yet, and most of the stuff getting proposed is to clarify it. I think that once we go through the whole thing once or twice, it'll settle down a bit. (I hope.)

Gandalfe, that's what I'm talking about, granted there were some issues that we did have to deal with.

But I think it turned into "New toy!"

I seriously don't see that we are in such bad shape that we need to be voting on and changing that many things.

We didn't change our voting system because the whole system is broken and yet I feel like that's what's happening, people are acting as if they have to make proposals. Just because we have a new system and can use it doesn't mean we have to.

I'd go all James Carville & Marlee Matilin on it

OK, I know I'm going to feel dumb when this reference is explained, but, huh?

James Carville and Marlee Matilin are higly paid politcal consultants on the opposite side of the fence, he a knee-jerk liberal from way back and she a right-wing apologist. They're married to each other. Came to prominence, if I recall correctly, during the Bush v. Clinton campaign.

James Carville and Marlee Matilin are higly paid politcal consultants on the opposite side of the fence

Oh! Mary Matalin! (I was trying to figure out what James Carville had to do with Marlee Matlin, and getting rather confused. Hadn't thought of name similarity there.)

Oops. My spelling error - I was pulling it out of a hat. I'll leave it, because it's funny.

Just as funny as the time (very stoned) I wanted to listen to Simon & Garfield.

I am so sick of seeing things put up for a vote that it isn't even funny. I no longer enjoy visiting Buffistas much. But that's my ish. Clearly Wolfram and others are liking the whole voting thing a lot more than I am.

Wrod.

I think that a lot of stuff is getting proposed now because the system isn't totally clear yet, and most of the stuff getting proposed is to clarify it. I think that once we go through the whole thing once or twice, it'll settle down a bit. (I hope.)

I seriously doubt it.

No, really.

We've opened a stupid fucking door, and I think it was A Big Mistake. Eh, who knows. Could be what's up with the world, but Jesus, Mary, Joseph and the Mailman, peeps, I feel like I've wandered into bizarro land at times. When JET suggested whacking the whole "VOTE! DISCUSS! VOTE!" thing, I was all like "HELL YES!!!"

Ref. his post. Take a moment. Think about it. Realize that people are shrugging and taking off, and understand that this whole "We're almost there!" sounds a lot like tilting at windmills that REALLY MIGHT BE MIDGETS.

I suppose I'm speaking as one of the people who has felt driven out of this thread for one reason or twenty -- most of them being my own inability to handle bureaucratic minutiae:

I no longer enjoy visiting Buffistas much.

To be honest, this has been part of the reason why I've been mostly gray for the last few months. Not the whole part by a long shot -- there's the job, family ill health, the massive website sprawl I maintain, my inability to keep up in 95% of the threads...

But the bickering. Um. Dude. I've been gray so much that newbies think I'm the newbie. (Oh, the humility!)

I've been trying to threadsuck Bureaucracy as often as I can, and when I do I'm just startled by the... negative and hostile tone, I guess. Likely it's the 7-hour-thousands-of-posts gulp, where half of it consisted of people asking other people to chill out that is coloring my perception.

I care about this community. I get a little upset when there's infighting. But it's not the end of my world when I don't get my thread, and it wouldn't be the end of the world if some of the lesser-used threads I frequent were combined.

I tend to think of the greater community good. The Buffistas were here before I got here, and they'll probably still be here if I decide leave. Having said that, in this thread I've sensed a proprietary attitude toward this community that I find disquieting. I want it so I should have it" shouldn't be a valid defense when this many people are involved, because we are a we. We need purposes, benefits, pros and cons. Will it break the site? Will it bring in trolls? Will it really hurt for people to skip war discussion in natter like Hecubus-in-a-dirndl skips cat talk?

If a significant portion of Buffistas wanted something, it usually happened. If a significant portion did not, then it didn't. That was how it was done in the past, and it seemed to work well enough from my naïve perspective. I guess I was another Buffista who didn't realize we had a lot of members who weren't in favor of the process that was in place.

This post edited for clarity and a tendency to ramble.