I can only speak for myself, but I don't think you guys are turning your noses up at newbies. You just need to get to know them first. That's not a reflection on you as a community, it's a reflection on you being a community made up of human beings.

Thank you, Monique.

Maybe it's best if we look at the influx of new folk as something more along the lines of the new freshmen arriving at school vs. something more akin to an invasion. Some first-years will acclimate nicely, and make fast friends with people in other grades. Others will keep to themselves while figuring out where they best fit in. Then, there will be a few twerps who try to rewrite the rules to their liking, and make asses of themselves by trying to "outcool" the ones they ones they perceive (for whatever reason) as the "cool kids."

I do think that having a certain troll show up at the same time as an influx of new members has only served to make us a little jumpy, wondering if there's another one like him out there somewhere. I think a lot of people are still very shaken by what happened. As for me, I'm now at a point where it would be hard to imagine certain threads without Deena, or PaulJ, or wolfram, or MechaKrelboyne, or....

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I love you too, Am-Chau.

considers

Humm. I like green, I look good in diamonds...

Love you too.

And I am only evil when it's in the best interests of my client. I guess the real W&H falls into that category as well. That's something to chew on.

You wanna take that to Previously? Becuase I'd love to chew over W&H with you, but this isn't the place.

If a guy violates the rules, even if he re-lurks, I don't think it's a good policy to ignore it or "let it go".

I'm inclinded to leave something unprovable be, until there's actually a real problem. While he's lurking, he's no breaking anything. Let's chill and leave it be, on a 'let sleeping dogs lie' principle.

Edit:

I think this

the new freshmen arriving at school

is a helpful version of what connie n. was trying to get at earlier.

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I think what a lot of people are worried about is the "getting away with it" factor. If a guy violates the rules, even if he re-lurks, I don't think it's a good policy to ignore it or "let it go". But it isn't the end of the world either

I guess my thing is that he hasn't been banned, or even warned. There's nothing but suspicions behind the allegations. Pursuing it seems premature, and maybe a little witch-hunty.

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Interesting discussions. If you don't mind an only-occasional poster chipping in, I'd much rather risk possible sock-puppets "getting away with it" than risk condemning someone unjustly based on circumstantial evidence, especially now that someone isn't here to defend himself. Personally, I've found Schmoker's posting style a bit grating, but not offensive in a way that may merit banning. Now that he seems to have disappeared, I'd prefer it if we just let the sleeping dogs lie.

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If you don't mind an only-occasional poster chipping in

I swear, the next person that says something like this, I'm going to bonk on the head. In a gentle, affectionate manner.

We want to hear your opinions. Everyone's opinions. The only way this works is if those who care contribute to the discussion. It doesn't matter how often you post, what threads you post in, how long you've been posting, who you talk to, who you don't talk to, or whether you dislike the use of the word "foamy." If you have something to say, by all means, speak up. We want to hear you.

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Maybe it's best if we look at the influx of new folk as something more along the lines of the new freshmen arriving at school vs. something more akin to an invasion.

We could treat them like arrivals at boot camp, and set about weeding out the faint of spirit. NEWBIES! DROP AND GIVE ME TWENTY MEARAS!!

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I swear, the next person that says something like this, I'm going to bonk on the head. In a gentle, affectionate manner.

Thanks, Dana.

We could treat them like arrivals at boot camp, and set about weeding out the faint of spirit.

I suspect that simply continuing to talk about hyena sex and salad shooters will do the job for us.

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I swear, the next person that says something like this, I'm going to bonk on the head. In a gentle, affectionate manner.

Heh. You can throw a frying pan to my head if you like, Dana. I'm used to it. I've got a hard head.

OK. Promising to speak out in the classroom loudly and frequently from now on.

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Promising to speak out in the classroom loudly and frequently from now on.

But don't feel pressured. Just get on being comfortable and saying as much or as little of whatever you want to say.

And Jim? What did you mean?

Edit: not to be here, clearly.

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