See, in my fantasy, when I'm kissing you... you're kissing me. It's okay. I can wait.

Oz ,'First Date'


Bureaucracy 1: Like Kafka, Only Funnier  

A thread to discuss naming threads, board policy, new thread suggestions, and anything else that has to do with board administration and maintenance. Guaranteed to include lively debate and polls. Natter discouraged, but not deleted.

Current Stompy Feet: ita, Jon B, DXMachina, P.M. Marcontell, Liese S., amych


David J. Schwartz - Jan 19, 2003 1:58:38 pm PST #3130 of 10001
New, fully poseable Author!Knut.

I can't be offended because you twist my words into somehow making that an insult.

Nobody's twisting your words. They're right there, and they're insulting. You could have disagreed with what Shawn said without being rude. We do it all the time.


Rebecca Lizard - Jan 19, 2003 1:59:17 pm PST #3131 of 10001
You sip / say it's your crazy / straw say it's you're crazy / as you bicycle your soul / with beauty in your basket

Just one more suggestion for the admin warning thing -- following on from the idea of putting admin warnings into red, bold font or whatever, how about having a graphic for official warnings.

That seems clever to me, John.


scrappy - Jan 19, 2003 2:00:01 pm PST #3132 of 10001
Nobody

You CAN be offended, Schmoker. It's just you need to think about how you deal with being offended (as we all do). Rob got upset at you, and several posters asked him to express his feelings in a more polite way (and he apologized, as he should have). If you're upset at Shawn say, well, "That upset me. I feel as if you are twisting my words and I feel attacked." If you can't read the difference in tone between that and "don't get your panties in a bunch" then you are a lot less intelligent than you seem to be. And that I don't believe.


Rebecca Lizard - Jan 19, 2003 2:01:26 pm PST #3133 of 10001
You sip / say it's your crazy / straw say it's you're crazy / as you bicycle your soul / with beauty in your basket

(John! Not to be off-topic here, or use a thread just a vehicle for short personal messages, which I would so never do, but-- AIM?)


John H - Jan 19, 2003 2:05:31 pm PST #3134 of 10001

Bureacracy note?

If Schmoker does really want to discuss, just as something interesting, the fact that we watch a show where people are insulting and rude to each other, but don't allow insults and rudeness here, then this is not the thread for it.

I personally feel, Schmoker, that you're annoying people not just by your words, but by the fact that you cannot let things go.

Every time you say "OK, I'll drop it", you don't drop it. Every time you say "I get it" you go on to say something that proves you don't get it. Every time you say you understand that you offended someone, there's a pause, followed by you saying "...but" and then going on to say how you were justified, or the rules are being applied inconsistently, or, as you've done above, trying to say that it's ironic that we watch a show where people are rude to each other but won't allow it on the board. You seem to have a need to keep these difficult situations alive and in the forefront of debate.

Either you get it, or you don't. And I've seen you say, over and over, that you get it.

And then there's that terrible pause.

And then you start up again.

I personally find it exhausting and depressing and I really wish you'd stop.


Jon B. - Jan 19, 2003 2:05:47 pm PST #3135 of 10001
A turkey in every toilet -- only in America!

stompies are allowed to add graphics

Brilliant! Maybe we could limit it to one specific graphic file, 'cause who knows how out of control I might get if I could add graphics to my posts willy-nilly.


Sue - Jan 19, 2003 2:08:28 pm PST #3136 of 10001
hip deep in pie

Brilliant! Maybe we could limit it to one specific graphic file, 'cause who knows how out of control I might get if I could add graphics to my posts willy-nilly.

With great power comes great responsibility, Jon.


John H - Jan 19, 2003 2:09:16 pm PST #3137 of 10001

Maybe we could limit it to one specific graphic file

Oh yeah for sure. Or maybe two or three like, the shortcut could be

g first

for a first-warning graphic, then

g final

then

g ban

or something like that?


Jon B. - Jan 19, 2003 2:09:55 pm PST #3138 of 10001
A turkey in every toilet -- only in America!

Look at me! I'm stomping crazy!

Yeah, John, that's a great idea.


Lyra Jane - Jan 19, 2003 2:11:22 pm PST #3139 of 10001
Up with the sun

I love the graphic idea, FWIW.