I’m sorry I haven’t been here in forever, but I wanted to let you know that Norah passed away earlier this week. Cody wanted you to know how important the Buffistas have been to her, and to him. There will be services after the holidays, but no date has been set yet.

ETA: At Cody’s request, please don’t mention this on Facebook.

Tim's follow-up post-treatment PET scan is tomorrow morning. Fortunately we don't have to wait long for the results, because he has an appointment with the oncologists tomorrow afternoon to go over the results. Please send all the good vibes his way. And all the fuck-you-cancer vibes, too.

Clean scan clean scan clean scan fuck yes, CLEAN SCAN!!!

It's been so long, but I think about all of you all the time.

I'm dipping in with a ~ma request for Cagney. He is in hospital and, well...

I will no let him suffer like Bartleby did. While I am hoping for more time, I will not be greedy for one more day that he cannot give me without pain.

Please. Just gentle, right outcomes, whatever our fate.

In two months, it will have been 14 years. A triumph no matter what.

Trudy's mommy, Ruth, passed away surrounded by her family yesterday. Services will be held on Saturday.

Hello all, I know it has been a long time, but this is the first place I thought of. My mother passed away sometime between Saturday night when I spoke to her (more chipper than usual) and Monday morning when my uncle showed up for his weekly help her do stuff day. My poor uncle. He is very stoic, but he shared that when he called 911 he forgot his own phone number She always said that she wanted to die before she knew what was wrong with her, so it is ironic that she had a bunch of diagnostic doctor’s stuff scheduled for Wednesday. What is less great is that since she was completely secretive about everything, everything is a wild goose chase. So anyway, when I am in crisis, ai still think Buffistas, but I am not sharing widely on Facebook yet.