It's because you didn't have a strong father figure isn't it?

Joyce ,'Chosen'


If the Apocalypse Comes, Beep Me

Birth, death, illness, new job, vacation...if it's happening to you and you want us to know about it, post it here. These threads are intended for announcements only. Want to offer sympathy or congratulations, or talk about anything? Take it to Natter. Any natter here will be deleted.


beekaytee - Jan 13, 2016 11:20:30 am PST #5272 of 5668
Compassionately intolerant

I'm going to be on The Joy Factor on KZUM radio (Lincoln, Nebraska) this evening at 7pm eastern time, 6pm central.

The host, Sheila Stratton is a friend from the Great Peace March and her show is dedicated to inspired action and ordinary people bringing something they love to life.

The clicky link is to listen live, if you are of a mind!

eta: I think 'listen life' ought to be a hashtag where people take their pasts to task. But what I really meant to say is that you can listen live.


Sean K - Jan 14, 2016 12:19:36 pm PST #5273 of 5668
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty

So... I got married back on January 1st. At some point when I have a minute, I'll post some of the pictures we took that day.


SuziQ - Jan 15, 2016 5:00:52 pm PST #5274 of 5668
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Our vwbug is expecting and due in March. Her cousin is hosting an online baby shower on February 14th. I don't have many details beyond that. I was asked to share this info with the Buffistas. If you would like to receive an invite, please send a note to my profile addy. I will crosspost on FB.


Aims - Jan 18, 2016 3:41:25 pm PST #5275 of 5668
Shit's all sorts of different now.

A few years ago, a whole lotta youse provided me with assistance - prayers, ~ma, thoughts, good wishes, and financial - to finish my education and graduate and become a teacher. A long held, once thought out of reach dream.

Our district photographer visited my classroom this past week and took 250+ shots in my room during our calendar/rug time and an MLK project we did with the other first grade classroom. They were posted to our district photo gallery today. I thought you guys might like to see them.

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Thank you so incredibly much. Everyone.


Pix - Feb 13, 2016 6:15:22 pm PST #5276 of 5668
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

So...apparently I'm doing a marathon tomorrow. I won't lie -- I'm really nervous about the run. My training topped out at 20 miles (a full marathon is 26.2 miles, 42.2 km) and that was my last long run before I pulled my hip/groin muscles. I've given myself time to heal and am well taped up for tomorrow, but with the heat and distance, this will truly be something I've never done and never thought I could do. Thank you to my cheerleaders who have given me purpose and confidence and special thanks to those who donated to my charity, Westside German Shepherd Rescue of Los Angeles. My goal was to raise $1500, and I'm currently at $1674.84, which is amazing!

If you want to track my slow progress tomorrow, I'm bib 11410. You can download the LA Marathon app if you're interested. I had originally aimed to finish under 5 hours, but with the extreme heat and my injury, I suspect it will take me closer to 7. I should be starting between 7:15 - 7:30 board time since I'll be towards the back of the pack.


beekaytee - Feb 15, 2016 11:26:01 am PST #5277 of 5668
Compassionately intolerant

A whole year has passed since this wonderful community helped me to win the Washington City Paper Best Life Coach in DC poll.

It's voting time again!

Please lend me your clicks at this link.

This is a fun radio interview I did that highlights what I do and how I do it. It would be great for sharing with folks you know, who do not know me.

See where I am going here? I would be SO grateful for shares and encouraged votes. The competition is stiff this year.

Much obliged!


Polter-Cow - Feb 16, 2016 9:27:12 am PST #5278 of 5668
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!

My brother is having a baby!

Well his wife is.

My sister-in-law is having a baby.

I'M GONNA BE AN UNCLE.


Kalshane - Feb 17, 2016 3:59:16 pm PST #5279 of 5668
GS: If you had to choose between kicking evil in the head or the behind, which would you choose, and why? Minsc: I'm not sure I understand the question. I have two feet, do I not? You do not take a small plate when the feast of evil welcomes seconds.

After 10 years together, my girlfriend is now officially my wife. We had a quiet ceremony at the courthouse today. We were pleasantly surprised by the judge's handling of the ceremony.


beekaytee - Mar 01, 2016 8:50:21 am PST #5280 of 5668
Compassionately intolerant

It is the last day for voting in the the City Paper Best of poll

I can't offer Girl Scout cookies, but I would be so grateful for any spare email votes.

Thank you!


vw bug - Mar 10, 2016 11:25:16 am PST #5281 of 5668
Mostly lurking...

Hello, my friends! It's been a little while, but I wanted to pop by and let you all know that our baby girl arrived safe and sound at 12:31am, February 23, 2016. She weighed 4 pounds, 11 ounces and measured 16.5" long. She's a tiny peanut, but absolutely perfect. We couldn't be more in love. It was a terrifying pregnancy, and delivery was more eventful than I would have preferred, but she is so very worth it.

I keep meaning to get a Flickr album up that I can share here, but have been adjusting to life with a preterm infant. You can see some pics on Instagram. I hope to get her birth story up at MeekManor.com soon. You can also see a sneak peek photo from our newborn photo shoot on our photographer's Facebook page. I'll share that one in the Buffista groups on Facebook.

Her online nickname continues to be Stitch. Since I'm so involved in the loss community, we've decided to keep her full name more private. Happy to share if you reach out.