MiracleMan, Emily and I go waaaaaaay back. Even scattered to the corners of the country, we still kept in touch regularly. I remember Emily came back to Michigan for a con once and I remember her talking about this show called "Buffy," how in the recent season finale Buffy had had to kill a guy named "Angel," and how she wanted to talk about it with people on a thing called a "Buffy Board," and I'm pretty sure she mentioned something about Salon Table Talk. I knew Salon, but had never ventured into the TT area. Then it went pay.
I started watching Buffy the very next season, from the start of S3, and was instantly hooked, but it would be several more years before I finally asked MM and Aimee to guide me to where this Buffy Board thing was. I'd asked once or twice before but hadn't acted on it.
I knew they talked to interesting people, and that they had been turned on to the "board" by Emily, but I had other things I was doing online. I generally found a new posting board every year or so, growing bored or irritated or whatever. I spent a lot of time fighting with Creationists, then got bored with that. Then I spent a few years going through a Tolkien posting board or so a year, before moving on to the next thing.
Then I just ran out of posting boards and needed something to read online, so I bugged Joe and Aims again for this Buffy thing. In previous answers, they had given me strange, hard to remember addresses, that didn't overtly seem to have anything to do with Buffy.
This time when they answered (the January before the LA F2F, I think), they said "Oh yeah, the address is www dot buffistas dot org."
That was easy to find and remember.
I think I lurked for about five minutes before diving into the three day silverware discussion.