Riley: Oh, yeah. Sorry 'bout last time. Heard I missed out on some fun. Xander: Oh yeah, fun was had. Also frolic, merriment and near-death hijinks.

'Never Leave Me'


Natter 48 Contiguous States of Denial  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


juliana - Nov 17, 2006 2:51:59 pm PST #999 of 10007
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

I don't get to see Kat at all. Pout.

BUT! I get to see Lee in 2 hours! Whee!!!


Lee - Nov 17, 2006 2:53:26 pm PST #1000 of 10007
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

YAY! That means that I get to leave in about 20 minutes, go to the doctor, then get on the freeway and not move for an hour or so!


Theodosia - Nov 17, 2006 3:08:19 pm PST #1001 of 10007
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

I'm making blueberry muffins and waiting for a friend to arrive!


§ ita § - Nov 17, 2006 3:13:40 pm PST #1002 of 10007
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

I'm waiting for the muscle relaxants to kick and wondering if getting up to put on the Lidocaine patch is worth...getting up.

Neck's not killing-killing me, or anything. Otherwise I'd have put it on already. Just wondering what measures I should take before my massage tomorrow afternoon. I bless whatever brought a cool and funny massage therapist into krav (okay, it was probably her obsessive boyfriend--do I bless him, or whatever brought him in?) who's willing to slot me in at fairly short notice.

Exercise today (all I've accomplished, really) loosened it up some, but not enough.

I just have to shake a fist at UCLA Medical billing. They sent me bills for ~$700 for some stuff. Now, with a bill that big, I wait for insurance to have a crack at it, since I shouldn't be getting bills that large. So I wait, and I wait, and then I finally decide to look up the EOBs myself, and they make no sense. Over a month ago I called UCLA Medical billing to say "Hey? No sense!" at which point they transferred the bill from one department to another. I checked up on them a couple weeks ago, and they told me to hold off on any action.

Yesterday I get a "Will proceed to collections toute suite" bill. For $12. Because apparently I should have paid that off when I first got the bill for $700. The rest of the amount has gone away, which is quite nice. And the lady when I called made it seem like it wouldn't be quite that immediate them repossessing my car or anything.

Makes me wonder if I should 2xcheck every bill, not just the big ones.


sarameg - Nov 17, 2006 3:19:25 pm PST #1003 of 10007

There are so many ways insurance billing can be fucked up, I'd say yes. Might buy a tank or eight of gas every year?

That said, I've gotten bill-like things that I couldn't tell if they were bills or not, and erred on the side of ignoring them. No one has come after me yet....

I wish you were feeling better.


flea - Nov 17, 2006 3:21:14 pm PST #1004 of 10007
information libertarian

I still haven't seen any bill at all for the birth of my son. Who is four months old. I actually called them the other week, because a friend of mine had the first notification of a similar bill when the collection agency called, and the woman poked around in my record and discovered lots of incompetence and screwups, and said I should see that bill eventually (it's a simple copay; I already know what it is.)

Ridiculous incompetence.


§ ita § - Nov 17, 2006 3:23:59 pm PST #1005 of 10007
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

I hate the way they go at the weakest link (us) so quickly and with such intimidating language. Anything under about $70 I'm going to figure is really my responsibility--or at least not worth the time in research. Ten times that amount? Damn skippy I'm going to let things ride some while the behemoth insurance gets its ass in gear. Too often this stuff is because they won't play nicely together, and everyone gets an attack of the passives.

This is why I certainly keep all my medical bills and all my EOBs.


brenda m - Nov 17, 2006 3:36:44 pm PST #1006 of 10007
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Yes, I and a couple of others around here can attest to the fact that brain tumors are distinctly lacking in up-sides.


sarameg - Nov 17, 2006 3:43:44 pm PST #1007 of 10007

My brother mostly deals with the experimental lab end, not so much the treatment end. Mice, rats, petri dishes and manufactured cells. Today he apparently met with some kids and parents. It's a sobering reminder of what he's really working on. I mean, I'm sure he's aware of that on some level on the day to day, but he's missing his kid today and people are...personal.


sarameg - Nov 17, 2006 3:47:56 pm PST #1008 of 10007

I think asshat is coming into common use. Just heard it on Ghost Whisperer.