Bunch of wanna blessed-bes. Nowadays every girl with a henna tattoo and a spice rack thinks she's a sister to the dark ones.

Willow ,'Bring On The Night'


Spike's Bitches 33: Weeping, crawling, blaming everybody else  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Topic!Cindy - Nov 27, 2006 8:26:09 am PST #3288 of 10004
What is even happening?

Yes, sj. I get all sorts of vision symptoms with my migraines (actually, I get those more than bad headaches, when I get migraines). Sometimes, it looks like the rays on the top half of the sun (but I can't see the sun). Sometimes, there's just no vision in one eye. Sometimes, it's like a flashbulb went off. I can't say I've had the lightning bolt shape, but it still sounds like a migraine to me.

It's interesting you had it about a year ago. That makes me think there's an allergy trigger or tie-in, or else you're eating more of something at Thanksgiving, than you would at other times, that is triggering you.


vw bug - Nov 27, 2006 8:26:25 am PST #3289 of 10004
Mostly lurking...

sj, sounds like it to me.

ION, decorating by yourself isn't nearly as fun as decorating with other people.


sj - Nov 27, 2006 8:31:04 am PST #3290 of 10004
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Thanks Cindy and vw, I am glad it sounds at least like something people have heard of, because I went into a horrible panick attack when it happened. The original doctor thought it might be related to the dryness of winter last year, so I think it is seasonal. After it went away I got the headache and nausea that I have heard people mention with migraines. I still feel kind of crappy today.


beth b - Nov 27, 2006 9:12:35 am PST #3291 of 10004
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

yay

hugs internets

it was all gone. luckily I checked the cable modem , which some how became upplugged


Glamcookie - Nov 27, 2006 9:33:36 am PST #3292 of 10004
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

All my best friends have been girls/women. All my guy friends have eventually ended up making moves on me. Based solely on my own experience, I think that guys only befriend girls that they are interested in dating and hope they get lucky one day.


erikaj - Nov 27, 2006 9:39:44 am PST #3293 of 10004
Always Anti-fascist!

I have more male friends now than ever. I think I'm too much woman for most of them, though.


Topic!Cindy - Nov 27, 2006 9:49:48 am PST #3294 of 10004
What is even happening?

sj, I would take something (I got them a lot when pregnant, so I still try Tylenol first out of habit, but there are better OTC medications), lie down in the dark, then have coffee before I came back into a lighted room. I would wear sunglasses around the house, if they hit when I had to do something (feed a baby, etc.) and couldn't lie down.

I tended to get the headache and sick feeling afterward, but the headaches were not unbearable.


§ ita § - Nov 27, 2006 9:52:23 am PST #3295 of 10004
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Very few of the guys I know more than passingly ever make moves on me. Perhaps it's the unsparkle of my personality. Guys who are going to make moves, it seems, make them right up front, so I can deal with it as appropriate and move on in the applicable manner.

Which is nice...except that I never make moves on guys, so it kinda sucks to know I won't be rescued from my own cowardice/issues by someone I've known a while.

If you don't count friends garnered from b.org, or relatives, my friends are predominantly male. Face to face, it seems that's what sticks.


Topic!Cindy - Nov 27, 2006 9:54:00 am PST #3296 of 10004
What is even happening?

When I was younger, my friends were about a 50/50 m-f split. Now, they're mostly female, although most of them are married, and I consider their husbands friends too, so... I dunno why I thought I had something to contribute to this conversation.


Aims - Nov 27, 2006 9:54:32 am PST #3297 of 10004
Shit's all sorts of different now.

I'm right with you, ita.