Happy Belated Birthday, DJ!
Atherton: Half the men in this room wish you were on their arm, tonight. Inara: Only half. I must be losing my indefinable allure.
'Shindig'
Spike's Bitches 33: Weeping, crawling, blaming everybody else
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
sj - Nov 27, 2006 5:32:34 am PST #3260 of 10004
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
Vortex - Nov 27, 2006 5:34:51 am PST #3261 of 10004
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman
I'm currently agonizing over this from the other side. My friend B. cut me loose a few months ago and I'd like to send her a birthday card...
eh. send the card. It will cost you $2 and give you peace of mind.
Nora Deirdre - Nov 27, 2006 5:36:19 am PST #3262 of 10004
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)
eh. send the card. It will cost you $2 and give you peace of mind.
yeah, I think so. I think "agonizing" was a bit strong to descibe my uncertainty, but I'ma blame it on it being Monday.
Topic!Cindy - Nov 27, 2006 5:38:54 am PST #3263 of 10004
What is even happening?
Spike's Bitches 34: Agonistas Anonymous
Daisy Jane - Nov 27, 2006 6:07:19 am PST #3264 of 10004
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."
Good luck with your friend too Nora. My thing is, this girl screwed me over without so much as a "Hey, I'm sorry about this, but..." So it's not the kind of thing where you send a card saying, "I miss you!" and my icy heart melts. Break my trust, break the friendship.
I had a bit more to say about that than I thought.
Thanks for all the birthday wishes. I got jewelry, perfume, tea, a journal, my Powerbook, and a Saints win. Also got very drunk and played basketball in high heeled boots with my lawyer.
Vortex - Nov 27, 2006 6:11:06 am PST #3265 of 10004
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman
Oh, I'm with you. I will cut people off. But, there are some people who I have cut off who I would not be unhappy to hear from. It won't be the same, but we don't have to never see each other. Unless, of course, your "gesture" involves a craft party for which you want me to pay for the materials. What is with that? When did it become okay to ask people to pay to come to your event?
umm, sorry. personal issue.
Daisy Jane - Nov 27, 2006 6:14:30 am PST #3266 of 10004
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."
I have a couple of people like that, but I don't consider that really cutting them off, just not really making an effort to keep up with them. Those I wouldn't mind hearing from.
Aims - Nov 27, 2006 6:16:21 am PST #3267 of 10004
Shit's all sorts of different now.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY DJ!!
I've had to cut people out of my life. And there are others that I would like to cut out of my life, but for other reasons, can't. I just limit my contact with them as much as possible. It just gets to a point where if the contributions to my life are more negative than positive, there's no reason to keep that negativity in my life. Sucks.
Connie Neil - Nov 27, 2006 6:24:16 am PST #3268 of 10004
brillig
It just gets to a point where if the contributions to my life are more negative than positive, there's no reason to keep that negativity in my life.
Do you ever get the impression that those people see a positive for themselves in the relationship--and more than a selfish positive, such as "I love her, she's such a wonderful audience for my egomania"? I suspect there's a fine line between actively trying to maintain communication and being perceived as a stalker.
Daisy Jane - Nov 27, 2006 6:27:46 am PST #3269 of 10004
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."
Do you ever get the impression that those people see a positive for themselves in the relationship--and more than a selfish positive, such as "I love her, she's such a wonderful audience for my egomania"?
Not Aimee, but yeah, I think those people think the relationship is a positive one for them, though it probably is selfish even if they don't think of it that way.