This is my boat. They're part of my crew. No one's getting left. Best you get used to that.

Mal ,'Ariel'


Spike's Bitches 31: We're Motivated Go-getters.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Steph L. - Jul 23, 2006 8:38:46 am PDT #5202 of 10001
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

And, honestly, it's so much easier to sleep with a guy before you know each other than after.

Not if you're me. But I'm also well aware that I'm way way WAY outside the norm when it comes to sexual activity and attitudes about same.


Typo Boy - Jul 23, 2006 8:48:51 am PDT #5203 of 10001
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.

Not if you're me. But I'm also well aware that I'm way way WAY outside the norm when it comes to sexual activity and attitudes about same.

Vanilla?


Steph L. - Jul 23, 2006 9:15:37 am PDT #5204 of 10001
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Not if you're me. But I'm also well aware that I'm way way WAY outside the norm when it comes to sexual activity and attitudes about same.

Vanilla?

I don't think the continuum of vanilla fudge nut ripple really applies. It's more about with whom -- and how quickly (or not) -- I'm comfortable sharing my fudge nut ripple with.


erikaj - Jul 23, 2006 9:28:27 am PDT #5205 of 10001
Always Anti-fascist!

Tep is me. After an hour, you're lucky to get both parts of my *name* much less...anything else. But I doubt anyone would care; my chair gives me a First Impression Deficit that is more likely to make them call Grandma than put a quick move on me.


beth b - Jul 23, 2006 9:46:49 am PDT #5206 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

I am on the Steph and Erika side of things...knowing someone is better for me


beth b - Jul 23, 2006 9:56:05 am PDT #5207 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

This is the hottest weather we've seen in California in at least a decade or more

[link]

they want people to use internal combustions engines less. also turn off elctronic devices like tvs and computers.

Back to books, people. that's all you've got.

I will be turning this off at some point today...when I can't bear being in this room . Luckily you aren't all that chatty today ...


erikaj - Jul 23, 2006 9:56:24 am PDT #5208 of 10001
Always Anti-fascist!

I used to hang with a girl in college that used to tell strange guys times when we left the house and stuff like that. I was always thinking she'd get us killed, even before I ended up in Munchkinland full-time.ETA: Please to notice new Sportsnight tag. I think I love Casey for that.


sj - Jul 23, 2006 11:27:35 am PDT #5209 of 10001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Nice tag, erika! I miss Sports Night.

I am in a nasty mood today because I pushed myself too hard this week walking around and such and now I am depressed and achy. I did manage to go out (not kill anyone) and do some errand. Now I am home happily ready to watch the baseball game that I have been looking forward to all day, and I soon as I turned on the tv the cable went out. t /first world problems

ETA: Cable is rebooted and working again.


Nora Deirdre - Jul 23, 2006 11:48:30 am PDT #5210 of 10001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

And, honestly, it's so much easier to sleep with a guy before you know each other than after.

I've gone about this both ways, and the one night stand thing didn't do well with me. I wanted it to- I *wanted* to be all casual sex yay and secure in my sexuality and empowermentcakes and all, but it wasn't like that at all. It sucked, I felt humiliated, and I cried a lot. I still have shame twinges.

However, not to get all TMI but my current sexual relationship has just gotten better like WHOA the longer we are together and the more we know each other physically and emotionally.

So, Tep, you and me!


sj - Jul 23, 2006 11:53:18 am PDT #5211 of 10001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Standing in the Nora and Teppy corner. It is a very pretty corner to be in.

Nora, I hope your Sunday is going better than your Saturday did.