Mmm, caffeine sounds like a NICE plan....I went to my friend's surprise birthday party last night (and it was a surprise! And then she felt really bad about being bitchy to her gf all week for not doing anything for her birthday). And this morning rolled out of bed and metroed and walked to my friend's new landlord, to get her keys, so she can move in when she gets here, as the landlord will be on vacation. It's not that hot outside, but somehow I am nasty sweaty. ICK. In a bit, I'm picking up birthdayfriend so we can go shopping. But we may have to make a coffee stop, yes...
And, honestly, it's so much easier to sleep with a guy before you know each other than after.
sadly, I really do get that. Though I'm not sure that the hour, vs the "after you've met her twice for like, an hour each time" really makes a difference in the scheme of things, I suppose...it just FEELS longer, when there's a month between meetings. Even if you don't actually know each other better.
And, honestly, it's so much easier to sleep with a guy before you know each other than after.
Not if you're me. But I'm also well aware that I'm way way WAY outside the norm when it comes to sexual activity and attitudes about same.
Not if you're me. But I'm also well aware that I'm way way WAY outside the norm when it comes to sexual activity and attitudes about same.
Vanilla?
I don't think the continuum of vanilla fudge nut ripple really applies. It's more about with whom -- and how quickly (or not) -- I'm comfortable sharing my fudge nut ripple with.
Tep is me.
After an hour, you're lucky to get both parts of my *name* much less...anything else. But I doubt anyone would care; my chair gives me a First Impression Deficit that is more likely to make them call Grandma than put a quick move on me.
I am on the Steph and Erika side of things...knowing someone is better for me
This is the hottest weather we've seen in California in at least a decade or more
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they want people to use internal combustions engines less. also turn off elctronic devices like tvs and computers.
Back to books, people. that's all you've got.
I will be turning this off at some point today...when I can't bear being in this room . Luckily you aren't all that chatty today ...
I used to hang with a girl in college that used to tell strange guys times when we left the house and stuff like that. I was always thinking she'd get us killed, even before I ended up in Munchkinland full-time.ETA: Please to notice new Sportsnight tag. I think I love Casey for that.
Nice tag, erika! I miss Sports Night.
I am in a nasty mood today because I pushed myself too hard this week walking around and such and now I am depressed and achy. I did manage to go out (not kill anyone) and do some errand. Now I am home happily ready to watch the baseball game that I have been looking forward to all day, and I soon as I turned on the tv the cable went out.
t /first world problems
ETA: Cable is rebooted and working again.
And, honestly, it's so much easier to sleep with a guy before you know each other than after.
I've gone about this both ways, and the one night stand thing didn't do well with me. I wanted it to- I *wanted* to be all casual sex yay and secure in my sexuality and empowermentcakes and all, but it wasn't like that at all. It sucked, I felt humiliated, and I cried a lot. I still have shame twinges.
However, not to get all TMI but my current sexual relationship has just gotten better like WHOA the longer we are together and the more we know each other physically and emotionally.
So, Tep, you and me!
