Get up...get up, you stupid piece of... What did you do that for? What's wrong with you? Didn't you hear a word he said? All of you! You think there's someone just going to drop money on you?! Money they could use?! Well, there ain't people like that. There's just people like me.

Jayne ,'Jaynestown'


Spike's Bitches 31: We're Motivated Go-getters.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


beth b - Jun 26, 2006 8:07:18 pm PDT #1925 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

Dear K-Bug,

First, big hugs to you. I am so sorry your day sucked.

Now - lecture: altitude, lack of sleep , travel all of those will take away from your preformance. Ask anyone that does a lot of travel. For athletes, that need to rely on thier bodies, it can be worse. Rest hard, breathe deep( really, practice this), and eat well - your ablity to play will improve.

All the Buffistas are behind you. Lean on our strength.

Now a big hug for mom, she had a bad day too.

love , your fans

The buffistas


SuziQ - Jun 26, 2006 8:08:41 pm PDT #1926 of 10001
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

And now I'm crying again.

It is all your fault, beth. Well, that and probable PMS.


DavidS - Jun 26, 2006 8:17:48 pm PDT #1927 of 10001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

I will turn 25 in September.

I'll be 45 in two days.

Suzi, I'm sorry K-Bug had a rough go of it. Emmett had an insanely intense baseball weekend (5 games with two different teams), but even with a shaky pitching performance still was feeling pretty up and chipper about it. But I've certainly seen him lose his confidence and it's tough as the parent when you know how good they are.

Tell K-Bug I'm a really good judge of talent, and I'd LOVE to have a player of her caliber and her spirit on any team I coached. Baseball/Softball is all about bouncing back. Way more failure than success on a regular basis.

I know - absolutely know - that she's got a tournament coming up where she's not just going to play well, but dominate. It's in her.


beth b - Jun 26, 2006 8:21:09 pm PDT #1928 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

there's no crying in baseball.

seriously, I really tend to think of the buffistas kids as , well , not mine, bu t close enough .


SuziQ - Jun 26, 2006 8:23:03 pm PDT #1929 of 10001
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

I've been trying to tell her that even if she has lost HER confidence, she needs to take mine.

These problems have been growing since she joined this team. These girls are GOOD and she needs to WORK to keep up. They play at a different level than the other teams she has played on. She had the talent to match them - her head is just in the absolute wrong place.

I'm so behind on this paper. this sucks.


DavidS - Jun 26, 2006 8:31:31 pm PDT #1930 of 10001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

These girls are GOOD and she needs to WORK to keep up.

It'll be good. Emmett really benefitted from playing on the tournament team - really pushed him to play at a higher level. She's got the talent. She really does.


WindSparrow - Jun 26, 2006 8:40:58 pm PDT #1931 of 10001
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

I've got no words for K-Bug, just hang-in-there vibes.


beth b - Jun 26, 2006 9:25:52 pm PDT #1932 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

I have no idea if this would have helped - or hurt me when I was at K-bug's age, but every single time you get pushed out of your comfort zone, the easier it is. Every new job, every new social situation gets easier , the more you get used to the idea that things will neever, ever stay where you comfortable. and when you fail, oddly, it only sometimes makes a difference. and you will never know when it will make a difference. ( this comming from a person who says 'no , I can't change my plans, I was going to do laundry!' is very funny. but I still think it is true)

And Emmet baseball stories are proof of my devotion to Buffista children. because I read every word David writes, and I even try and follow them.


meara - Jun 26, 2006 9:31:23 pm PDT #1933 of 10001

Shit. I was going to bed really late anyway, and then I fell asleep and had a super super creepy realistic dream about someone being in my bedroom. And I knew in the dream that it was a dream, but I was paralyzed with fear (and because it was a dream). And I managed to wake up. And I opened my eyes, and was like "OK, dream. No one here. Go back to sleep". And I went back to sleep (because I got like, 12 hours sleep this entire weekend). And the dream came back, even creepier. Damn it.

So I am up, with the lights on. Fucking brain.


-t - Jun 26, 2006 9:39:50 pm PDT #1934 of 10001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Oy, that sucks. I hate being afraid to go to sleep becuase the nightmares live there.

I am waiting for my stupid cat to come inside so I can go to sleep.

Eta: and she's in the darling creature. Good night all.