Dawn: I think a date should be in a real fancy restaurant, then champagne at a night club with a floor show, then ballroom dancing. Joyce: Unfortunately, we're not dating in a movie from the thirties.

'Get It Done'


F2F 4: Too Much Candy, Never Enough Mojitos.  

Plan what to do, what to wear (you can never go wrong with a corset), and get ready for the next BuffistaCon: Madison, WI from June 20-22 2008! Official website.


Pix - May 24, 2006 7:24:56 am PDT #1479 of 10002
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

All your Scola are belong to us!


deborah grabien - May 24, 2006 7:27:36 am PDT #1480 of 10002
It really doesn't matter. It's just an opinion. Don't worry about it. Not worth the hassle.

The Lost & Found list. Can anyone put a name to these?

1. A white umbrella with (I think) the words "April Cornelle" written around it.

2. A pair of beige backless Xhilaration beaded wedge womens shoes.

3. A black baseball cap

4. A hardbound collected Tales of Winnie the Pooh, blue cover

5. A pair of low-heeled black strappy sandals, approximately a sixe 8.5 or 9

6. A tiara (claimed by Perkins)

7. Green beaded flats (claimed by Deena)


esse - May 24, 2006 7:34:50 am PDT #1481 of 10002
S to the A -- using they/them pronouns!

SA has, quite possibly, surpassed Shrift in fannish crackwhoredom.

I am beginning to think that might be true.

Gonna go hop in the shower, then me and David are gonna hit up a museum (because you have those here!) and meet the loverly juliana for lunch. I believe this counts as a frabulous day.


brenda m - May 24, 2006 7:35:52 am PDT #1482 of 10002
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

2. A pair of beige backless Xhilaration beaded wedge womens shoes.

Those are mine.


Beverly - May 24, 2006 7:44:57 am PDT #1483 of 10002
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Home. Missing peeps. So far, no Ick, yaye? I left Ginger at the Atlanta airport with strict instructions to A) find her car B) drive carefully, and C) sleeeeep. Unpacking later. She's one of the few who can be sick and still funny.

There are no gorgeous funny foamy people here. How is that fair? On my final flight from Atlanta to Greensboro, I sat next to a cute young man, who apologized for not speaking English well. He's Piotr Kepinski, classical pianist, playing a local gig before heading to NYC for another. He'd been awake and in flight something like 20 straight hours. He'd make a fine Buffista...though I didn't tell him where I had spent the weekend, as I wasn't sure my emoting and hand-gestures were up to the task.

I am unreasonably (ahem) pleased to be the bear of very little brain for the board, so long as Fay is Piglet and Pete is Eeyore and the narrator. Possibly some of the other roles could be appropriately cast in future, but Mr. Reason proved himself variously a marvelous Eeyore, BDH, cat-herder, and infinitely patient. And oh yes, funny. Jilli is just the Jilliest, as I always knew she would be, and seeing her and JZ in a hat-off on the dance floor was a thrill. Prom was simply an overload of the foamy and fantastic. People shouldn't be able to wear colors like that and look that fabulous, right? Special powers, have Buffistas.

There are far too many people to thank: Deb, of course, for all the point work beforehand, being contact and pokesperson with the hotel, and for keeping the HS stocked. Others are due thanks for this too--I couldn't have afforded the trip had I not been able to skip the cost of restaurant meals. Deb also gets applause for booking the van and lift for the Bridge and Sausalito tour and dinner. Raq, Matt and Ginger get many props for repeated assembling, use, and disassembling of the lift. Nic and ND for the fantastic sound at Prom, Suela for bringing Laura Shapiro's vids to the HS on Saturday, and Laura herself to the Prom. All the localistas for the driving and the hosting and the tour-guiding.

Deb again for the damp but spectacularly-fooded BBQ (OMG--the food!), and the Monday night pasta supper. Matt for driving the smoosh-mobile to the DeYoung and the A&C exhibition, and for geeking as deeply as the rest of us over the art and the function and the line. See? Is too a synthesis of the Shaker function and Japanese form. Is! Suzi and Hec and JZ for hostage and tour-guiding and helping out-of-towners to explore and get to know SF and environs in ways only localistas can do.

Sooo many to thank for making the weekend so fabulous, and I'ma stop before they start the music and drag me, weeping in happy gratitude, offstage. One last personal thank-you, though, to KatieB for a Monday of gorgeous scenery and restorative contemplation, plus a chance to play with beads and baby kittens, and a bunk Monday night and a ride to the airport yesterday. Yesterday? Seems a week ago already. Not fair!

I love you all. There is no second sentence.


deborah grabien - May 24, 2006 7:57:07 am PDT #1484 of 10002
It really doesn't matter. It's just an opinion. Don't worry about it. Not worth the hassle.

Brenda - email me with snailmail address, so I can send, please?

My ick is gone, except for a residual scratchiness of throat.


Ailleann - May 24, 2006 8:08:42 am PDT #1485 of 10002
vanguard of the socialist Hollywood liberal homosexualist agenda

Ah well. Same time, next year....

Provided the fates align, I'll offer to be Deb's personal paparazzi next year. Gives me a chance to follow her around and eat enjoy her spicy brains without seeming like a stalker!

ION, I covet Jilli's Prom dress. Tres loverly.


SuziQ - May 24, 2006 8:11:20 am PDT #1486 of 10002
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Suzi and Hec and JZ for hostage

I had to read this a couple of times before I realized you weren't thanking me for kidnapping folks (which I did do, but have not mastered my bondage techniques, so I am buffista-free).

Deb - glad you are feeling better.

ION, I covet Jilli's Prom dress. Tres loverly.

I covet her entire wardrobe. PLEASE dress me. PLEASE.


Amy - May 24, 2006 8:11:40 am PDT #1487 of 10002
Because books.

Awake (mostly) and struggling against the Ick, which seems to be lessening. Am also claiming the title of Happiest and Luckiest Buffista Evah, because on my first F2F I got to:

  • stay at Deb's house and snatch moments of chatting quietly with her, PLUS eat her fabulous cooking and meet her many cats
  • room with Fay (!) AND Amy Parker (!)
  • eat yummy Angelino's food in Sausalito with many foamy Buffistas, including erika
  • observe the Crazy Assness of Winchester House with ND, Kristin, Raq, Theodosia, Epic, Miracleman, Laura, and Matt the Bruins Fan
  • have Scola tease me and take my picture
  • dance with many, many foamy Buffistas at prom
  • witness smonster's fabulous bellydance and Jilli's swooping
  • kiss Teppy and juliana
  • meet the fabulous Aimee and the wonderful amyth, who agree that the Amys should clearly take over
  • hug Bev and Deena and Lee and Nora and many others
  • witness bouncing and squeeage at the Arts and Crafts Exhibit, thanks to beth's DH Matt and Amy Parker
  • participate in a West Coast gropemobile while on Sail's lap
  • ride back to the hotel in a second gropemobile, with Amy Parker as our seatbelt
  • have Hec cut my hair a la smonster, while sitting on the sun on the Zmayhem's deck
  • wander the Haight with Ginger, Sail, Jessica, amyth, smonster, Kate P. (who gets my vote for best laugh), and Hec
  • eat yummy pasta at Deb's with most of same, plus Toddson

I'm positive I'm forgetting things, but my only real regrets are not getting more Deena and JZ time.

Deb gets huge thanks for all the setup and point person work -- the prom was fabulous and the hospitality suite was beautifully stocked, and the BBQ food was bountiful and delicious. All the locals who offered beds and rides and hospitality, of course, rock.

Off to look at all the pictures and glow.


Deena - May 24, 2006 8:14:55 am PDT #1488 of 10002
How are you me? You need to stop that. Only I can be me. ~Kara

All of Jilli's dresses are covet-worthy. I also covet Vortex's smashing green wrap/coat/sexy thing she wore to prom.

The Pooh is mine, Deb, but it's not necessary to return it. The postage would probably be more than the book is worth.