I think that it's the way people say "You look good-different.'

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Yeah, it was just weird--she was like "You've lost weight!" and I was like "Um" and she's all "No, like, LOTS of weight!!!" and I was like "Nooo....". Sigh. Wish I ran into her more often, she's smokin' hot.

Also, why does my cellphone charge me $0.40/min to Canada, but less than that to other foreign countries? Not fair! I don't even have to dial special numbers, but it's forty cents a minute instead of free? Damn.

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meara, I've gone through periods in my life where that's happened to me, when I know I haven't lost weight, and even when I have gained weight. The answer--humans are freaks.

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Since I am already being vain and needy today, I guess I should ask, do I look ok?

Remember when I said that photos don't do you justice? This one proved me wrong. Damn, baby! You look HOTT!

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I am popping in to represent the heterosexual male contingent, which declares that sj looks more than okay but, not being able to come up with the most accurate word to describe her attractiveness, has settled on ravishing. Because it has the word ravish in it.

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I'd use the word smokin' myself.

had brunch with some of the bayare people( and other friends of Sparky's - including kids, which is fun) and a craft fair. and a good talk with DH on the way back. and When we got home a neighbor stopped by with flowers.

nice day

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I'd use the word smokin' myself.

Were she on fire or holding a lit cigarette in her mouth, I would use such a word as well.

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Dude, remember "fake it till you make it."

A great perfume, fishnets, amazing eye makeup and elegant posture go a LONG way towards this.

Pretend there's a wire holding your head to the ceiling, hold your shoulders back, relax everything else, and fucking swagger like you own the fucking world. And smile kindly at everyone, like you are reassuring them that they too are wonderful people.

You may be a mess inside, but no one will ever guess. Believe me, it works. It's my Number 1 Sexy Lady Magic Trick.

Erin is my current personal goddess.

Since I am already being vain and needy today, I guess I should ask, do I look ok?

Oh yeah! And I am guessing even more stunning in person than in the photograph.

(a) Good, because they think you're looking good

Choose A. Lost weight is the default assumption when the smokin' hot look even better. Actually is the most common assumption when anyone looks better but with meara smokin' hotttt is the default.

has settled on ravishing. Because it has the word ravish in it.

This is a good way to choose words.

Were she on fire or holding a lit cigarette in her mouth, I would use such a word as well.

Fire dancers? Gorgeous beyond words. Jilli and I were totally mesmerized last night. And two amazing burlesque performers. And the contact juggling guy who was quite pretty and quite bendy. I have offered to help Jilli to capture one or both of the slinky sexy fire women to lock up in a gilded cage. To sum up, no word good enough to describe fire dancers.

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Dude, one of the women at our great big show a few weeks ago spun fire. She also hosted, and is a burlesque dancer, and has a HOTTTTT boifriend. The fire spinning? Was AMAZING. SO awesome. And I kinda wanna watch her and her partner make out. Cause it would be hot.

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Fire dancers? Gorgeous beyond words.

Were the dancers actually on fire?

Because if they were not, they were not smokin'. They were more smoke-adjacent.

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