What's the etiquette when you realize, when an e-mail is just out of reach, that you've sent it to the wrong "Bonnie" on your list? Send another e-mail apologizing? Pretend it didn't happen?

And here I was about to tell you to think about "tomorrow, tomorrow I love you tomorrow! You're only a day a way!"

interrupting the nonsense* to say

lovely gifts sj- and no your friends don't care if it is a little messy. and if you do what I do - and keep the messy room's door closed - somehow they will end up in there anyway.

I always think of the idea behind buddihism , as I understand it, when I hear of situations like P-C's. First Right action ( as in being outwardly calm when your mother is throwing hysterical illogic at you) and the right action will eventually lead to Right thought, which is actual calm in the face of of things.

does one recover from meningitis paralysis

no idea. we really don't have a full picture of what is going on. Hopefully when Matt goes up on Saturday we will know more.B is really Matt's friend, and it just killing him, because B is one of those kids that you just never had any doubts about. Whereever he was going to end up, you knew he was going to be a good human being

eta:* ok - so just as I started writting this you stop talking in words I don't understand , so I look rude instead of funny

In his defense, he's getting ready to leave for a month. I imagine he's stressed. So, I'll back off a bit.

Your nice to cut him slack, vw.

I wasn't sure whether that GRRR was an actual comment or a VM reference for a minute there.

I imagine he's stressed. So, I'll back off a bit.

Pfft! Just because he's under stress, he is not excused from giving my pal vw attitude. Tell him I said so. You can also tell him I've been known to grade bar exams (you don't have to tell him it was for another state and that it's blind grading, just tell him I have ways of knowing) and I'll be on the lookout for him. That'll give him some stress. Hee!

ha - tht's one of those things that Matt and I talk about a lot. When you are stressed, you do not get a free pass to take it out on other people, esp those you live with. But on the other hand, if you know someone is stressed and not about you, they do get a little lattitude. ( besides, he''ll be gone for a month)

But umm wasn't Not!Emily pretty awful even when he was not stressed?

I wasn't sure whether that GRRR was an actual comment or a VM reference for a minute there.

Grrrrrant.

Oh my God, I have SO MUCH FUCKING WORK. I've got to fuck with one report and write four more in the next nineteen days.

"You, young man, have got job security," he says. Except I still don't actually know what my official status is.

Like, I don't even have time to find an apartment now.

But umm wasn't Not!Emily pretty awful even when he was not stressed?

He has his moments. I really only complain about him...he's not *that* bad. It could be much worse.