In better news, Stephen got the job I had asked for the job~ma for. Yay! Buffista ~ma is powerful stuff.

Oh, YAY!!! I'm so happy for him (and you) Amy.

Today was my last day of external radiation, yipee!! I'm celebrating with a reuben, fries, and a chocolate malted in a few minutes. Which I'll probably pay for later, but I don't care.

Another YAY!!!

I have a Girl Issue to be neurotic about.

I'd better scroll down further before I post another YAY!!!

PC, just be completely up front with her. Tell her exactly where you are and exactly what you're thinking.

Before or after I kiss her again?

Uh, P-C, I'm going to go against much of the Bitch advice on this one. I wouldn't do that at all right now. You had one day of smooches. I wouldn't do any of that talking stuff, this early.

It feels wrong.

I like ita's advice. If you want to kiss her again, kiss her again. Spend time with her. Go places together. Go no place, together. Enjoy it. Don't worry about labels. By the time you "need" to define it, it will have probably defined itself to both of you. Just be your regular, decent self.

Me, I'd kiss her first. I mean, if she were a he and a he I liked. And then maybe apologise. But I'm greedy for kisses that way.

Kissing is the awesome.

We had a great conversation about kissing in here, once. I disremember how long ago, though.

Go kisses. Yay, kisses.

Today was my last day of external radiation, yipee!! I'm celebrating with a reuben, fries, and a chocolate malted in a few minutes. Which I'll probably pay for later, but I don't care.

How did I miss this?! I must have been skimming again. YAY, you!

So, in apartment news, I contacted a real estate company I used to work for to help in my search. The agent in JP and I are now e-mailing back and forth. It's MUCH fun! I can't wait till I start going and looking at places.

Of course, the agent I called yesterday about a specific apartment hasn't called me back yet, and that has me annoyed.

I have to say that cindy's advice is the way I wish the world worked , bu tI am afraid of her getting hurt , not by P-C, but by the issues from his family.

Uh, P-C, I'm going to go against much of the Bitch advice on this one. I wouldn't do that at all right now. You had one day of smooches. I wouldn't do any of that talking stuff, this early.

Well, I hear you don't exist. Maybe I shouldn't listen to you! But your advice is more fun.

By the time you "need" to define it, it will have probably defined itself to both of you.

This is my feeling as well, really. That we'll have a good time until we decide to stop.

Me, I'd kiss her first. I mean, if she were a he and a he I liked. And then apologise. But I'm greedy for kisses that way.

Hee.

Yay, JenP!! That is great news and a great way to celebrate (ruebens are my favorite, ever.)

Go, vw, stack those cats...er, furniture. Don't wear yourself out, though.

I know beth, but they've only had one day of smoochies. They might not even want it to be a thing.

I don't know. I'd just get scared off early if a guy was talking about whether or not it was a thing, or dating, or kissy friends, after one day of smoochies.

Apropos of nothing, I have to tell you (still beth) I frigging love your hair in the F2F photos. There were some I saw this morning (maybe Scola's prom shots) and I just wanted to touch it. So. Darn. Beautiful.

I think if I were the girl in question, though, and I like some guy enough to want to kiss him lots, I'd probably want to know sooner rather than later that that's *all* he wanted to do.

Still, it's early-ish for the discussion. Wait and see if she even wants more kissage first, I guess.

I'd just get scared off early if a guy was talking about whether or not it was a thing, or dating, or kissy friends, after one day of smoochies.

points to self

Train wreck.

I think if I were the girl in question, though, and I like some guy enough to want to kiss him lots, I'd probably want to know sooner rather than later that that's *all* he wanted to do.

Hence my angst.

Wait and see if she even wants more kissage first, I guess.

That was already implied by the hint that we would have more room when I was forced to visit her again to return her books.