Sooner is better than later, P-C, and if you're going to set up boundaries then it should happen before the next free-for-all kissage. I'm always in favor of this type of thing being a conversation that you have in person, but if you think you won't be able to get the words out in the order you want them to go, then write yourself some notes and phone or email.
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And, now I must do something else useful...besides look at apartments and plan my future.
Yes, you must look at apartments and plan where the furniture could go.
Damn me and my neuroses sabotaging potential free-for-all kissage!
I want a free-for-all... going homeage.
I cannot focus on work!!!
In better news, Stephen got the job I had asked for the job~ma for. Yay! Buffista ~ma is powerful stuff.
Oh, YAY!!! I'm so happy for him (and you) Amy.
Today was my last day of external radiation, yipee!! I'm celebrating with a reuben, fries, and a chocolate malted in a few minutes. Which I'll probably pay for later, but I don't care.
Another YAY!!!
I have a Girl Issue to be neurotic about.
I'd better scroll down further before I post another
YAY!!!
PC, just be completely up front with her. Tell her exactly where you are and exactly what you're thinking.
Before or after I kiss her again?
Uh, P-C, I'm going to go against much of the Bitch advice on this one. I wouldn't do that at all right now. You had one day of smooches. I wouldn't do any of that talking stuff, this early.
It feels wrong.
I like ita's advice. If you want to kiss her again, kiss her again. Spend time with her. Go places together. Go no place, together. Enjoy it. Don't worry about labels. By the time you "need" to define it, it will have probably defined itself to both of you. Just be your regular, decent self.
Me, I'd kiss her first. I mean, if she were a he and a he I liked. And then maybe apologise. But I'm greedy for kisses that way.
Kissing is the awesome.
We had a great conversation about kissing in here, once. I disremember how long ago, though.
Go kisses. Yay, kisses.
Today was my last day of external radiation, yipee!! I'm celebrating with a reuben, fries, and a chocolate malted in a few minutes. Which I'll probably pay for later, but I don't care.
How did I miss this?! I must have been skimming again. YAY, you!
So, in apartment news, I contacted a real estate company I used to work for to help in my search. The agent in JP and I are now e-mailing back and forth. It's MUCH fun! I can't wait till I start going and looking at places.
Of course, the agent I called yesterday about a specific apartment hasn't called me back yet, and that has me annoyed.
I have to say that cindy's advice is the way I wish the world worked , bu tI am afraid of her getting hurt , not by P-C, but by the issues from his family.
