Home schooling? You know, it's not just for scary religious people anymore.

Buffy ,'Beneath You'


Spike's Bitches 30: Going on Thirteen  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Atropa - Apr 19, 2006 12:57:49 pm PDT #278 of 10002
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

Oh, Jilli, look!

Awwww, those are cute. Plus, y'know, the Foglios are Good Peoples.


Pix - Apr 19, 2006 1:11:57 pm PDT #279 of 10002
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

Someone please tell me to clean. I'm stressed and depressed and a little numb about the money I had to shell out today, but dammit, my dad gets into the airport at 7, and I've done *nothing* to prepare my house.


aurelia - Apr 19, 2006 1:15:38 pm PDT #280 of 10002
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.

I love the "type of property" descriptions in Aimee's links. "Unusual", "Detached". I'm waiting to see one that is "Co-Dependent".


WindSparrow - Apr 19, 2006 1:16:30 pm PDT #281 of 10002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Kristin, if your kitchen and bathrooms are not sanitation nightmares, and there is enough space to sit in the living room that he won't have to hold a stack of old newspapers on his lap to use the couch, the place is good enough. He's your dad, and I bet that he gets how stressed you are today, or will when you talk about it.


JZ - Apr 19, 2006 1:18:28 pm PDT #282 of 10002
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

What Andi said. From what you've said about your dad, he's a good man and he loves you lots, and he'll understand. As long as he has a place to sit and there's nothing conspicuously stinky lying around, don't gnaw yourself to bits over it.


Pix - Apr 19, 2006 1:22:06 pm PDT #283 of 10002
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

Thank you...I know you're all right, it's just...

I hope you'll all understand when I say that I have to clean. I mean, I'm not going to go crazy, but I will be more unhappy and uncomfortable if he arrives and it's dirty than if I take the afternoon to nap and veg. Does that make sense?


juliana - Apr 19, 2006 1:23:23 pm PDT #284 of 10002
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

Oh, that makes a ton of sense, hon. It's okay. Think about how nice it'll feel once you've cleaned, turn on some music and blast as high as you can, and go for it.

Love you.


Pix - Apr 19, 2006 1:25:25 pm PDT #285 of 10002
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

I love you all so much. I really don't know what I would do without you right now. Thank you.

Okay, deep breath. Music and cleaning.


ChiKat - Apr 19, 2006 1:26:47 pm PDT #286 of 10002
That man was going to shank me. Over an omelette. Two eggs and a slice of government cheese. Is that what my life is worth?

Tons of sense, Kristin. Give yourself rewards as you go. Once you pick up the living room and put everything away, you can spend 10 min on b.org. Once you clean the toilet, you can have a cold pop.

I do that to myself all the time.


WindSparrow - Apr 19, 2006 1:26:53 pm PDT #287 of 10002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Kristin, if this is elbow-grease therapy, then here is me shaking my pom-poms for you. We want you to do what will make you least stressed, and by we, I mean all the Bitches, and your Dad, too. Put on some dancing music and boogy the mess outta there. If you are having trouble getting started, maybe make a deal with yourself to have some sort of treat if you accomplish a certain amount.

I had to promise myself brownies in order to get myself to shower and leave the house to apply for a job, and yet once I got going, everything was fine.