Angel: Just admit it: you think you're gonna ride in, save the day, and sweep Buffy off her--Spike: Like you're not thinking the same thing. Angel: I'm already seeing somebody. Spike: What, dog girl?

'The Girl in Question'


Spike's Bitches 30: Going on Thirteen  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


ChiKat - Apr 26, 2006 9:40:19 am PDT #1393 of 10002
That man was going to shank me. Over an omelette. Two eggs and a slice of government cheese. Is that what my life is worth?

The press release comes from the Big Firm, not us. So, I hope it's accurate.

The long-term repurcussions are pretty much nil for me. I'm leaving in January to student teach (shhh! they don't know yet). I figure it'll take that long for any major changes to happen.


SuziQ - Apr 26, 2006 9:43:31 am PDT #1394 of 10002
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Empress - you rant wouldn't be aimed at anyone I might know, would it? If so, let me know if you need help. I'm good at poking.


Cashmere - Apr 26, 2006 9:45:36 am PDT #1395 of 10002
Now tagless for your comfort.

Raq, babies' brains can handle those differences waaaay easier than our stupid adult brains. My friend's son had no trouble learning Farsi and English simultaneously. He even tried speaking to his mother in Farsi but realized early on that she doesn't understand him so he switched to English only with her. With his dad, he uses both. At first he'd answer in English but moved on to answering his father in Farsi, too. Oh, and he's only 2 years and four months.

I personally discovered that some babies get on the verbal train quicker. Olivia seems much more vocal than Owen was. I worried about him up until he was 18 months. Even then from 18-22 months he wasn't really putting words together like I thought he should. Dude, was I ever worrying over NOTHING. I swear, it was like he picked up entire sentences overnight. It was quite freakish.

Then I realised I have the easiest haircut in the world, and with a pair of clippers with a #2 guard and a couple mirrors I was set.

Huh. I could cut ita's hair. This is how I do DH's. Only with fewer mirrors.


Volans - Apr 26, 2006 9:48:33 am PDT #1396 of 10002
move out and draw fire

ChiKat, cool! When my company (well, not MINE mine, but where I worked) got bought by Big Evil Defense Contractor, everyone was retained. And things got better, actually.

Cash, it's true. My Israeli friend's son speaks Hebrew with her and English with his father. (Unfortunately he speaks Hebrew with me, but okay)

In good news about the baby, Legion let Mal sleep on him today, and even purred.

ETA: Condi's visit poster: [link]


Cashmere - Apr 26, 2006 9:51:49 am PDT #1397 of 10002
Now tagless for your comfort.

Raq, as for worrying about dropping words--O did that some, too. I think once they master something making the sound it doesn't seem as important to them. Owen dropped a few words that he used early on and I tried everything to get him to repeat them but when he decided he needed them, he pulled them back out.

In good news about the baby, Legion let Mal sleep on him today, and even purred.

It's best they learn to give in early. Oz still thinks Owen should be the one to keep away from HIM. Ha! Silly cat. He's going to be wearing doll clothes in no time if he doesn't wise up.


ChiKat - Apr 26, 2006 10:15:58 am PDT #1398 of 10002
That man was going to shank me. Over an omelette. Two eggs and a slice of government cheese. Is that what my life is worth?

ChiKat, cool! When my company (well, not MINE mine, but where I worked) got bought by Big Evil Defense Contractor, everyone was retained. And things got better, actually.

Thanks, Raq! That's really good to know. The president of the Firm is coming here next week to meet everyone and tell us all about new Firm. It should be an interesting few months.


Topic!Cindy - Apr 26, 2006 10:19:50 am PDT #1399 of 10002
What is even happening?

Raq, as for worrying about dropping words--O did that some, too. I think once they master something making the sound it doesn't seem as important to them. Owen dropped a few words that he used early on and I tried everything to get him to repeat them but when he decided he needed them, he pulled them back out.
This was my experience with all three children, as well. And not just with speech. Lots of times, they'd master a new skill, get bored with it, and drop it for a while--stuff like waving bye-bye and playing peek-a-boo comes to mind.

Make a concerted effort to talk and read to him, and give him opportunities to answer, where it is clear you expect him to answer. He is too young (probably) to do it too much, but you can start. Choices are a good way to encourage speech; ask him things like: do you want apples or grapes?


beth b - Apr 26, 2006 10:27:21 am PDT #1400 of 10002
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

there is orb for the first time in days. I have to go to work ...why?


ChiKat - Apr 26, 2006 10:28:01 am PDT #1401 of 10002
That man was going to shank me. Over an omelette. Two eggs and a slice of government cheese. Is that what my life is worth?

Because the orb is a shiny but evil taunter.


JohnSweden - Apr 26, 2006 10:29:44 am PDT #1402 of 10002
I can't even.

I [heart] JohnSweden (like that's news).

::preens:: The 80s movies discussion got me wanting that as a tag, and it almost all fits. (as a career)

I picked the lock on hers one morning (she didn't come in until ~10) and left a note that said "STOP GOING THROUGH OTHER PEOPLE'S DESKS!! -God" Which pretty much stopped it.

Love. That may work better than trying to get Roberto the security guy to set up a hidden camera, which is the current plan.

It was frosted with ex-lax.

We've considered something like this too. Brilliant execution on her part.