Spike's Bitches 30: Going on Thirteen
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Raq, babies' brains can handle those differences waaaay easier than our stupid adult brains. My friend's son had no trouble learning Farsi and English simultaneously. He even tried speaking to his mother in Farsi but realized early on that she doesn't understand him so he switched to English only with her. With his dad, he uses both. At first he'd answer in English but moved on to answering his father in Farsi, too. Oh, and he's only 2 years and four months.
I personally discovered that some babies get on the verbal train quicker. Olivia seems much more vocal than Owen was. I worried about him up until he was 18 months. Even then from 18-22 months he wasn't really putting words together like I thought he should. Dude, was I ever worrying over NOTHING. I swear, it was like he picked up entire sentences overnight. It was quite freakish.
Then I realised I have the easiest haircut in the world, and with a pair of clippers with a #2 guard and a couple mirrors I was set.
Huh. I could cut ita's hair. This is how I do DH's. Only with fewer mirrors.
ChiKat, cool! When my company (well, not MINE mine, but where I worked) got bought by Big Evil Defense Contractor, everyone was retained. And things got better, actually.
Cash, it's true. My Israeli friend's son speaks Hebrew with her and English with his father. (Unfortunately he speaks Hebrew with me, but okay)
In good news about the baby, Legion let Mal sleep on him today, and even purred.
ETA: Condi's visit poster: [link]
Raq, as for worrying about dropping words--O did that some, too. I think once they master something making the sound it doesn't seem as important to them. Owen dropped a few words that he used early on and I tried everything to get him to repeat them but when he decided he needed them, he pulled them back out.
In good news about the baby, Legion let Mal sleep on him today, and even purred.
It's best they learn to give in early. Oz still thinks Owen should be the one to keep away from HIM. Ha! Silly cat. He's going to be wearing doll clothes in no time if he doesn't wise up.
ChiKat, cool! When my company (well, not MINE mine, but where I worked) got bought by Big Evil Defense Contractor, everyone was retained. And things got better, actually.
Thanks, Raq! That's really good to know. The president of the Firm is coming here next week to meet everyone and tell us all about new Firm. It should be an interesting few months.
Raq, as for worrying about dropping words--O did that some, too. I think once they master something making the sound it doesn't seem as important to them. Owen dropped a few words that he used early on and I tried everything to get him to repeat them but when he decided he needed them, he pulled them back out.
This was my experience with all three children, as well. And not just with speech. Lots of times, they'd master a new skill, get bored with it, and drop it for a while--stuff like waving bye-bye and playing peek-a-boo comes to mind.
Make a concerted effort to talk and read to him, and give him opportunities to answer, where it is clear you expect him to answer. He is too young (probably) to do it too much, but you can start. Choices are a good way to encourage speech; ask him things like: do you want apples or grapes?
there is orb for the first time in days. I have to go to work ...why?
Because the orb is a shiny but evil taunter.
I [heart] JohnSweden (like that's news).
::preens:: The 80s movies discussion got me wanting that as a tag, and it almost all fits. (as a career)
I picked the lock on hers one morning (she didn't come in until ~10) and left a note that said "STOP GOING THROUGH OTHER PEOPLE'S DESKS!! -God" Which pretty much stopped it.
Love. That may work better than trying to get Roberto the security guy to set up a hidden camera, which is the current plan.
It was frosted with ex-lax.
We've considered something like this too. Brilliant execution on her part.
My tiny, private, family-owned company is being bought out by a Big, Public Firm.
Good luck with that! Back in 1996, our medium-sized, family-owned company got bought out by one of the biggest international conglomerates in the publishing business which already owned a bunch of our (smaller) competitors. After much reorganization (which wasn't all the Dutch overlord's fault--we had been going through that in preparation to going on the sales block) and IMO some ridiculously high profit expectations by the Dutch (they wanted us to cover the smaller US companies' profit margins as well as our own), it seems to have settled down into a smoothly running operation ten years later. Of course, it helps that our former CEO is now the conglomerate's CEO (and one of Forbes "most powerful women in business," to boot!).
In today's shower news. I have a new soap made by a local guy- it is anise and shay butter. Interesting that my favorite lush soap is olive oil and fennel. the Lush soap is much more subtlly sented
