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Spike's Bitches 30: Going on Thirteen  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Topic!Cindy - Apr 25, 2006 1:54:49 am PDT #1087 of 10002
What is even happening?

Spidra, you made a corset? Wow. I'm lucky I can make my bed.


vw bug - Apr 25, 2006 1:56:20 am PDT #1088 of 10002
Mostly lurking...

Go Nora! Go Nora! Go Nora! I SO knew you could do it!

Maria!!!!!!!

Today will be better. Today will be better. Today will be better. I'm just gonna keep repeating that till it's true.

Things have been sucky, but I've kind of had a bad attitude. Gonna try to fix that starting with, well, last night. Time to plug ahead and start making plans again and get my ass off the couch. Today I clean the disgusting bathroom and do laundry and go to therapy. Sounds like a plan, right?


Topic!Cindy - Apr 25, 2006 2:02:05 am PDT #1089 of 10002
What is even happening?

vw, how's your mom? Is she home and everything? I know they won't have the biopsy results right away, but did they give her any sort of inkling?


Volans - Apr 25, 2006 2:05:00 am PDT #1090 of 10002
move out and draw fire

What Cindy said. I made one of my prom dresses with boning, and that was enough of a pain.

By "street wear" I meant "corset that covers nipples" or "corset that doesn't clearly look like a foundation garment." I have one that's red with black trim and lacing, and if you can't see it all at once, it looks great. If you can see it all at once, it looks like a cheap piece of underwear. But it looks good as the shirt with a black skirt and jacket.

I wasn't asking from a "what will people think" position, but more from a proportion/design position. I don't normally wear tops that zing in my waist and thereby emphasize my hips, so I'm wondering if the bottoms should counteract the hip emphasis or go with it.


vw bug - Apr 25, 2006 2:09:21 am PDT #1091 of 10002
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She's ok. I talked to her last night, and she sounded tired, but she was working on her quilt, so she was doing ok.

There actually was a bit of drama. She had had an MRI done that was supposed to help with the biopsy. It was done at a different hospital, and it didn't make it before the biopsy. So, they almost rescheduled it, which would have frustrated her muchly. Her surgeon stepped in, though, and made it happen.

Apparently, the surgeon was pleased with the samples they got, so that's good. I think she's encouraged.


Spidra Webster - Apr 25, 2006 2:10:00 am PDT #1092 of 10002
I wish I could just go somewhere to get flensed but none of the whaling ships near me take Medicare.

Thanks, T!C! Well, you haven't seen my bed. Meant to change the bedclothes today (yesterday) but didn't get to it. Tomorrow (when I wake up from sleeping, that is).

I've always wanted to make a classic Wonder Woman outfit. I didn't have the chops to do that yet (nor the body). The only Halloween event I was attending 2 years ago was a Victorian dress ball. So I went as the Elseworlds version of Wonder Woman from Amazonia. But I had to modify the outfit somewhat. There is *no* way someone could sit down in what the artist drew on her.

I was scared stiff of making a corset because I'd never made anything that tailored before. I'm a seat-of-the-pants sewer. I've never taken a class. Picked a few things here and there from my mom and my grandma but nothing fancy. The notions for corsets are so expensive (unless you have a wholesaler's license and can buy in bulk) that you don't save *that* much money. And I really didn't want to waste that much money if I made a mistake. So though I'm usually too half-assed to bother with making a muslin, I did this time. Also - I dropped $30 on Jo-Ann Peterson's video on how to make a corset (I used her Laughing Moon pattern). Another plus is that I live very close to Lacis so I was able to consult with some folks there.

It's not perfect. I need to strengthen some stitches that have since pulled out a bit. And I can tell that eventually the dupioni's going to wear away (the dupioni is on top of denim. There's no way dupioni could take the strain by itself). But it is a Wonder Woman corset and I imagine I'd have had to pay Dark Garden 5 times more to make one.

I have plenty of pictures of it in my new Flickr group for gig pictures. [link] I haven't had money to buy new clothes for a while so I still end up relying on this corset a lot to put together looks for gigs. Because I didn't want to be stuck with a corset that could *only* be a Wonder Woman corset, I made a false front (aegis) that snaps off. You can see it both ways there.

Others are waking up. Me? I've been a dumbo and stayed up nearly all night again.


Spidra Webster - Apr 25, 2006 2:11:17 am PDT #1093 of 10002
I wish I could just go somewhere to get flensed but none of the whaling ships near me take Medicare.

Well, I'm glad her surgeon righted things, vw. Continued good wishes to you and your mom.


Stephanie - Apr 25, 2006 2:14:18 am PDT #1094 of 10002
Trust my rage

vw, I'm glad to hear she's doing okay post-surgery.

Ellie is sitting next to me playing with her books. She has, however, discovered that the keyboard is something to hit. It's sort of dangerous for the keyboard. SHe also keeps trying to pull herself up on me and she has very pinchy fingers.'''


Spidra Webster - Apr 25, 2006 2:14:29 am PDT #1095 of 10002
I wish I could just go somewhere to get flensed but none of the whaling ships near me take Medicare.

Raq, I think the rules are much the same as they are for other things. If you feel you have large hips and feel like deemphasizing them, wear things that draw attention up top. Wear a stunning pendant that lands in the middle of your chest. Wear an ornament in your cleavage. I like to draw attention up top (and away from my hips) but I'm self-conscious about my fat arms and rolled shoulders so I wear a turtleneck that I cut away part of the chest from. When I wear that under my corset, It makes a nice diamond cut decolletage.

As for the bottoms, I have thin calves so I do best with flowing pants or skirts rather than tight ones. Although sometimes I do wear a tight skirt for performances.


Topic!Cindy - Apr 25, 2006 2:20:52 am PDT #1096 of 10002
What is even happening?

Apparently, the surgeon was pleased with the samples they got, so that's good. I think she's encouraged.

This is good, vw. I'm so sorry there was the drama, though. The whole thing is dramatic enough on its own.

I have plenty of pictures of it in my new Flickr group for gig pictures. [link] I haven't had money to buy new clothes for a while so I still end up relying on this corset a lot to put together looks for gigs. Because I didn't want to be stuck with a corset that could *only* be a Wonder Woman corset, I made a false front (aegis) that snaps off. You can see it both ways there.

That's gorgeous, Spidra. Do you get hot performing in the coat you have on for some of those photos?

Others are waking up. Me? I've been a dumbo and stayed up nearly all night again.
Ooof. I've been there. I hope you break the cycle today, and can sleep tonight.