You'll have to tell me if that is just a weird bit of random text or not.
Weird bit of random text. Ooops! Unless the discussion is about to take a dramatic turn.
We're deep in space, corner of No and Where.
Mal ,'Objects In Space'
Natter 43: I Love My Dead Gay Whale Crosspost.
Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
Jesse - Apr 07, 2006 5:36:04 am PDT #9391 of 10001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.
Jessica - Apr 07, 2006 5:44:07 am PDT #9392 of 10001
If I want to become a cloud of bats, does each bat need a separate vaccination?
Totally addictive Flash fame. Don't touch the purple bubbles!
Strega - Apr 07, 2006 5:51:15 am PDT #9393 of 10001
I think "no mind games" means the high school-ish courting rituals, like not returning calls for three days because then they'll know you LIKE them, and all that. Or causally mentioning other women's names in conversation, to create the impression that there's competition. It's hard to list all the behaviors, which is why it gets turned into "mind games." The problem, I think, is that most people (men and women) who do that sort of thing do it out of insecurity, not malevolence, so it'd never occur to them that "no mind games" applies to them.
Plus, it's easy to take it as, "You must be totally honest about your feelings, or lack of feelings, from the first second, and if you do anything that annoys me, I will accuse you of playing mind games." Which might be off-putting.
Vortex - Apr 07, 2006 5:55:11 am PDT #9394 of 10001
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman
Anyone want to brave IKEA with me this weekend?
which one? I was kinda thinking about going. I need a new hamper.
msbelle - Apr 07, 2006 5:56:28 am PDT #9395 of 10001
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb
IKEA!!!
Late to work today, but luckily what I thought was an 8:30 call was a 9:30, so I didn't miss it.
I need some decaf. I would also like a nap, but my boss says no.
sarameg - Apr 07, 2006 5:58:31 am PDT #9396 of 10001
Oh, I'd be going to Whitemarsh. No way in hell could I get to the one at Greenbelt(?) without getting killed by the traffic. But I think I'll be putting it off to some less busy weekend.
Jesse - Apr 07, 2006 5:58:39 am PDT #9397 of 10001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.
Oh yeah -- I totally want to go to IKEA! But instead I have to write my stupid thesis. The boy was planning on going tomorrow, too.
katefate - Apr 07, 2006 6:03:50 am PDT #9398 of 10001
Frail my heart apart and play me a little Shady Grove
Megan, so sorry for what you, DH and family are going through. Peace and strength to you all.
The problem, I think, is that most people (men and women) who do that sort of thing do it out of insecurity, not malevolence, so it'd never occur to them that "no mind games" applies to them.
This. Especially in regards to the high schoolish mind games Strega referred to (and the behaviors are legion). For some reason, I think of sexual players (which is the player I'm assuming ita referred to earlier) as being generally more self-aware.
Vortex - Apr 07, 2006 6:04:03 am PDT #9399 of 10001
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman
yeah, crappy weather means packed malls. ugh.
sarameg - Apr 07, 2006 6:07:02 am PDT #9400 of 10001
You know when the absolute WORST time to go to IKEA is? When the dorms open for the semester. Man, that was painful. And I didn't even buy anything. Just got swept far enough into the bowels that I had to fight my way to the exit.