I'm sure Teppy's right, but I couldn't advise it without being a terrible hypocrite, because I am the poster child for not doing what the doctor said. Of course, I had a double mastectomy in the morning and went home that afternoon, so vw probably should listen to saner people.

Yes, exactly what teppy said.

Deena! Good to "see" you. Is the house closing coming up soon?

Thanks! The closing is sneaking up on us. So far I have had to dig through scraps of paper and finally ask for proof of payment from a couple of clients to explain some "suspicious" deposits into the bank account after being told that proving (which I did with the taxes) I'm freelance would explain them. I've had to sign a bunch of papers I didn't know I had to sign and send them overnight to the mortgage company since they weren't signed last time we met. Inform the landlord that we're moving out at the end of the month and hope they don't demand to see the apartment for at least another couple of days, AND re-do our 2003 tax return because the print out that the IRS sent me that they said the mortgage company would take (I can't find our copy anywhere!) wasn't good enough.

I've also called the school district and explained Aidan so they'll be able to prepare for him; called utilities to explain what's up, and was told by the cable company that it doesn't matter that they give our neighbors cable, they won't give it to us. Ivan, our friendly CSR, couldn't find the city name in the database and refused to ask a supervisor or look any harder.

Um, too late to make a long story short, but the last thing to do before closing is homeowner's insurance, a quote for which SHOULD have been in my inbox day before yesterday but still has not arrived. I have called to poke about that, too, but the database was down or some such and they're doing the best they can. So, impatiently waiting for everything to be DONE. Hopefully, we'll be closing on the 23rd.

Deena! Good luck with all the moving stuff. Miss you!

Closings always seem to include obscure paperwork demanded at the last minute. Good luck!

{{{vw}}} I am so sorry, love. Please listen to Teppy for she is wise.

When I was sick a few years ago, I had to drop out of school completely for the semester. I was frustrated because I felt like I was a failure by not being able to cope with everything and because I was prolonging finishing school by getting myself off schedule like that. Upshot is that I'm human and have my limits and really couldn't cope with everything all at once, but that didn't make me a failure. And, I am finishing my program later than I had expected, but I'm also healthy and able to deal with it.

Shoot, just with my re-fi, it felt like there was always one more thing that needed to be signed. Grrrrr.

Ok - are there any buffistas in the Boise, Idaho area???

Deena, that's terribly exciting!

But why do they need to know why money appears in your account?

vw, please take care of yourself. Bed/home rest is hard, and letting things you'd planned on doing slip does chip away at the psyche, but so does extended pain.

Do more as I say than as I do. Please. Someone has to be sensible.

Thanks, sj! I miss you too. I feel like a stranger at all my online haunts. I can't wait to move. I'll have an office! with a door! that locks!

We're hoping my parents will be able to come up and help fix the wiring (it's knob and tube, if that means anything to anyone) and Dad said he'd run some grounded outlets, build a playhouse with a swing and slide for the babies, and build a back porch while he's at it.

We're hoping my parents will be able to come up and help fix the wiring (it's knob and tube, if that means anything to anyone) and Dad said he'd run some grounded outlets, build a playhouse with a swing and slide for the babies, and build a back porch while he's at it.

Yay!!! That sounds lovely. I am so excited for you. You're going to have your porch and a garden and a place for the kids to play outdoors. So exciting!

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But why do they need to know why money appears in your account?

For fear people are giving us money (ahem) and therefore won't be able to make the payments after the closing bit is all done.