Sooner or later, you're gonna want it. And the second — the second — that happens, you know I'll be there. I'll slip in, have myself a real good day.

Spike ,'Conversations with Dead People'


Natter 42, the Universe, and Everything  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, flaming otters, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


amych - Feb 03, 2006 12:43:10 pm PST #4800 of 10002
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

If you can, go for it.

Kinda what I'm thinking. But also scary and Not In Line With The (as yet unplanned) Plan.

I don't think I've ever heard of a work spouse. If I'd heard it in the wild, I probably would've guessed it referred to a situation of spending way too much time with them (as opposed to w/real spouse), and not to being close buds.

That's another "huh" for the day, I guess.


Gudanov - Feb 03, 2006 12:43:54 pm PST #4801 of 10002
Coding and Sleeping

The Hello Kitty electronics are cute when I see them in stores

The sheer pinkness kinda scared me.


kat perez - Feb 03, 2006 12:44:23 pm PST #4802 of 10002
"We have trust issues." Mylar

I have a work wife. It was an arranged marriage. My manager thought that we would be a good work match. She insisted on doing things like making sure we roomed together when we went to conferences and such. It's been a happy marriage. But, I also cheat on her with my work mistress. And that's the most fun.


§ ita § - Feb 03, 2006 12:45:47 pm PST #4803 of 10002
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

The DVD player needed to be more white with pink highlights, like Hello herself.

I found this work spouse def:

I am fascinated with the Work Husband, Work Wife relationship. By definition it is a situation where two people (usually a man and a woman) who work so well together, spend so much time together and do so much for each other they act like husband and wife. These two people usually never speak to each other outside of work but in that environment they are inseparable and will always defend the other in all confrontations there.

I wasn't quite that married, but it was a bit of a case of "we can pick on each other but you can't." His work older sister would fit too.


kat perez - Feb 03, 2006 12:50:52 pm PST #4804 of 10002
"We have trust issues." Mylar

That is an interesting definition. I definitely think my work wife and I are like that. Maybe not inseparable, but definitely got each others back in a tight spot. And we don't socialize outside of work, which I never thought about until now. As opposed to my work mistress, who I hang out with outside of work all the time.


Burrell - Feb 03, 2006 12:52:41 pm PST #4805 of 10002
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Never heard the term before. I think I probably have a work wife, except that we are friends outside of work as well.


Jesse - Feb 03, 2006 12:56:00 pm PST #4806 of 10002
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Oooh, that sounds exciting, amych.

Yay msbelle!

I have a class-wife. Although I do see her from time to time after school. We often refer to ourself as "the same person"

I have one of those, although we are generally BFF. But people are always calling us by the other's name.


Topic!Cindy - Feb 03, 2006 12:57:35 pm PST #4807 of 10002
What is even happening?

Which reminds me of the term work-wife or work-husband. Would anyone here say they have one?

I had a work husband before I met Scott, although I probably wouldn't have seen it that way, at the time. It got awkward once Scott (who worked for the same company, but 7 floors away) and I were serious. To be clear, it wasn't awkward because of Scott. I think work-husband had a problem with it.

W-h then dated a new woman in our group who turned out to have enormous issues, and he had terrible problems with her. I think she might have gotten pregnant and miscarried, but our work-marriage was strained by then and I'd been made acting supervisor through a weird confluence of events.

Soon after, I got a better job and left the group entirely, landing in an office, not far from the cubical area where we'd all sat. I was just thinking about this last night, because we watched The Office, (U.S. version) and I found myself 'shipping * Jim and Pam, and then realizing they reminded me a little of w-h, and me, before things got complicated.


Matt the Bruins fan - Feb 03, 2006 12:59:27 pm PST #4808 of 10002
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

I guess my work situation is complicated by the fact that my big bosses and a couple of other co-workers are actually relatives of mine. So, closer ties and out-of-office socializing, but not as much commiserating about the office.


msbelle - Feb 03, 2006 12:59:44 pm PST #4809 of 10002
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

tonight = manicure and watching DVRd tv. good times.