I'm just, uh, just feeling kinda... truthsome right now. And, uh... life's just too damn short for ifs and maybes.

Mal ,'Heart Of Gold'


Spike's Bitches 28: For the Safety of Puppies...and Christmas!  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Beverly - Dec 21, 2005 7:00:44 am PST #922 of 10001
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Beverly, I've never used a sugar scrub. How does one use them? Do you just moisten skin, scrub on the scrub, and rinse off? Is it for exfoliation? Can you eat it?

Yes, yes, and well, it won't kill you.

Well, Brenda's right. In fact on the tags I made I included the info "All food-grade ingredients." If you're into sugar and olive oil, have at it.

I have serious sensitivity to most of the ingredients cosmetic companies use--chief among them being lanolin, which is one of the best emollients for humans, all-natural, and one which most crunchy granola lines (Bert's Bees, frex) use. I had such a terrible time one winter that all I used on my very dry skin was mayonaise, crisco, and olive oil. I still use only olive oil based soaps, as it's the one thing that won't trigger my sensitivities.

Erin makes a butt polish that has some sugar in it, and is also vanilla scented, as I recall. But I think hers uses your favorite hand cream as a base. I could be wrong.

I sit on the edge of the tub and take about a teaspoon of scrub and gently rub it into the dry places on my feet and ankles, then smooth the residue up my calves to my knees. I may take another fingertip full to use on the knees. If you're gentle, the sugar isn't very abrasive, and the oil lubricates immediately. Sometimes I apply before a shower, and then have to moisturize after, but if I just do the feet, I'll rinse and pat dry, and the oil stays on and soaks in. Whatever feels the best for you.

Stephanie, I'm glad you reached Florida safely, and that Joe's folks are enjoying Ellie. You enjoy the warmth!

Go you on the paper, vw!

(((Bitches))) Gotta run. Digging my dirty house out for visitors tomorrow, in between (TMI) hacking up lovely green phlegm by the cupful other stuff.


Trudy Booth - Dec 21, 2005 7:05:47 am PST #923 of 10001
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

Beverly, have you looked at Lush's various vegan moisturizers? They wouldn't have lanolin.


Beverly - Dec 21, 2005 7:14:40 am PST #924 of 10001
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Trudy, I can't get past the front door of Lush--I have a paroxysm of sneezing and my ability to smell shuts down. I'd order online, but I would like to smell what I'm buying before I pay those prices. Not that their products aren't worth every penny, but besides, making my own is fun!

The small amount of alcohol in the extracts apparently acts as a preservative, because one batch of scrub I made more than a year ago is still perfectly fresh--the bits that are left in the corners of the jar, that is.


ChiKat - Dec 21, 2005 7:14:48 am PST #925 of 10001
That man was going to shank me. Over an omelette. Two eggs and a slice of government cheese. Is that what my life is worth?

Katie Bee: I'm completely appalled. I don't even understand these people. Please, post your reply letter here so we can join in your scathing mockery.

{{Beverly}} Feel better, chica!


Nora Deirdre - Dec 21, 2005 7:18:06 am PST #926 of 10001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

DO NOT. You've just extended the happy feeling your best friend gets from having people say Happy Birthday for a week! GO YOU!

Well, this is my friend who has been feeling lonely and abandoned and having a really tough year, and everyone else also forgot her birthday and I didn't even remember it to call and leave a message or a dumb email card or anything. I really screwed up big time.


Calli - Dec 21, 2005 7:21:23 am PST #927 of 10001
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Katie Bee, your employers are surprisingly asshatted, both on the stated purpose of the bonus and in asking for it back. What idjits.

"You don't have to be a weatherman to know which way the wind blows."

I like it.

In mememe work news, there is no new work news. And we had an hour long meeting today to establish this fact. But being laid off at the end of the month would qualify as "news" so I'm calling this good. Next month--who knows?


Sparky1 - Dec 21, 2005 7:29:36 am PST #928 of 10001
Librarian Warlord

I really screwed up big time.

Then you just have to tell her this, Nora, before you tell her what makes her your best friend that you might not otherwise say (or something just as sincere) but that she probably would like to hear at any time before offering your belated birthday wishes. It will be okay, although imperfect.

Good news, it is, Calli!


Nora Deirdre - Dec 21, 2005 7:35:10 am PST #929 of 10001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

I did, and we're going to see her tomorrow night, and we'll just have to get through it.

I just feel like I totally validated her fears about me getting married and moving away - that I'd forget all about her. 'Cause... I did. her birthday was the 12th. A day or two window, that's one thing. Over a week without that lightbulb going on... that's another.


Sparky1 - Dec 21, 2005 7:43:43 am PST #930 of 10001
Librarian Warlord

I just feel like I totally validated her fears about me getting married and moving away - that I'd forget all about her.

It is an awful feeling to think (or know) that you've let down a friend. But, you forgot -- you didn't remember and decide that you didn't have time to acknowledge her birthday because spending time with Tom and new friends was more important. You didn't reject her, you made a mistake. {{{Nora}}} If your friend is half as wonderful as you are, I'm sure she'll forgive you.


Nora Deirdre - Dec 21, 2005 7:45:24 am PST #931 of 10001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Thanks, Sparky.