Cordelia: I get it now. You're all spies. Probably all Russian. And you've brainwashed me, and want me to believe we're friends so I'll spill the beans about some nano-technology thingy that you want. Gunn: So I look Russian to you? Cordelia: Black Russian. Angel: That's a drink.

'Hell Bound'


Spike's Bitches 28: For the Safety of Puppies...and Christmas!  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


vw bug - Feb 13, 2006 8:56:22 am PST #8974 of 10001
Mostly lurking...

vw, please, please, please write a complaint to that doctor's supervisor.

I'm thinking about it. Craziness, I tell you. Craziness.


§ ita § - Feb 13, 2006 8:56:37 am PST #8975 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Oh, my. I can't even be specific, there's so much not good happening here.

Strength and peace to all of you, and all the appropriate-ma in the world.


DavidS - Feb 13, 2006 8:57:45 am PST #8976 of 10001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Gud-- I can only echo everyone's advice. It mnay be hard to believe now, but there is a better life waiting for you. The weight of constantly failing someone's expectations is heavier than you will ever know while you are living under it, and once the painful process of getting free of it is over you WILL feel better.

My college roommate and close friend got divorced last year. Fifteen year marriage with four kids aged from 6 to 14. It was devastating to him, and an extremely difficult transition.

But he said the first time he came home to his house with just his kids and no longer had to face his wife, it was just a massive, massive relief. And he's actually doing well now.

And I'm another example of getting to a better place after a divorce. I cannot recommend the experience, but it's possible. Don't despair.


SuziQ - Feb 13, 2006 9:04:18 am PST #8977 of 10001
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

{{{Gud}}} No advise, just lots of love.

vw - hang in there. Did you end up with Prednosone?

Nicole - An "A". wtf?


vw bug - Feb 13, 2006 9:04:59 am PST #8978 of 10001
Mostly lurking...

Did you end up with Prednosone?

Yup. Got them through IV last night and am on an oral taper now.


Jars - Feb 13, 2006 9:05:42 am PST #8979 of 10001

Also, Gud, I know I really don't know you or your situation that well, but I can tell you this - try not to worry to much how splitting up will affect the kids. As the child of parents who had nothing in common but myself and my sister, I used to cry myself to sleep at night wishing they'd get divorced and be happy. Kids are stronger and smarter than parents tend to give them credit for in that regard.


Nicole - Feb 13, 2006 9:10:54 am PST #8980 of 10001
I'm getting the pig!

Nicole - An "A". wtf?

Are you saying what I think you're saying? Did you get an A? In History?

::holds excitement and I TOLD YOU SO in check::


SuziQ - Feb 13, 2006 9:13:06 am PST #8981 of 10001
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Still have not gotten my feedback from the instructor, but that is what is posted in grade portfolio.

Not complaining, just don't understand. I SERIOUSLY skated through that class. I didn't even do the last two "role play" thingies. I decided my mental health was worth more.


amych - Feb 13, 2006 9:15:33 am PST #8982 of 10001
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

I SERIOUSLY skated through that class.

Yeah, but you were at least twice as smart as your idiot 7th-grade teacher prof, and he had the good grace to recognize that instead of getting sniffy about it.


Nicole - Feb 13, 2006 9:15:49 am PST #8983 of 10001
I'm getting the pig!

Ahahahaha! Sorry y'all but MG and I were discussing her grades just last night. She was sure she'd get a B or maybe even a C and I was rolling my eyes so hard they practically fell out of my head.

Anyway. Go you, MG!!! Woo hoo!!!