I'm just, uh, just feeling kinda... truthsome right now. And, uh... life's just too damn short for ifs and maybes.

Mal ,'Heart Of Gold'


Spike's Bitches 28: For the Safety of Puppies...and Christmas!  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Cass - Dec 19, 2005 2:42:46 pm PST #619 of 10001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

I think "diet" set would be cute and not feeling hurty. I'll put something in the note about how she can indulge with these guilt-free after all of the holiday stress.

It was helpful to just. get. it. out.
Venting is a time-honored tradition here. For a reason.


Cashmere - Dec 19, 2005 2:45:09 pm PST #620 of 10001
Now tagless for your comfort.

Any advice on rates is appreciated too.

MG, they usually will give you rates up front. But you can always negotiate. College kids are poor and easy. You can always offer to feed them in addition to tutoring if you want to cut the cost. One kid DH tutored through high school math went from a "D" to a "B". Christopher was so proud of him--the kid was trying to retain his eligibility for sports.

Fay, that sucks all kinds of ass. Much-hope-things-work-out-for-you-ma!

My doc cleared me from bed rest today. He said I just need to take things VERY easy for the next few weeks. Am taking this sound advice. DH just put up our old, and very small Christmas treet which we will decorate later and so it's feeling more like Christmas around here.


Topic!Cindy - Dec 19, 2005 2:46:16 pm PST #621 of 10001
What is even happening?

If she'll think it's cute, I'd give her the diet cinnamon set. I, on the other hand, want the full fat lotion.

Beej, I'm sorry you're having such a rotten time. I'm glad venting helped.


Topic!Cindy - Dec 19, 2005 2:47:27 pm PST #622 of 10001
What is even happening?

DH just put up our old, and very small Christmas treet which we will decorate later and so it's feeling more like Christmas around here.

Christmas treet is my favorite typo of the season. I'm so glad you're cleared, Cashmere. I hope you take it way way way way easy, and that you don't need to.


vw bug - Dec 19, 2005 2:51:15 pm PST #623 of 10001
Mostly lurking...

Cashmere, I'm glad you've been cleared and that things look okey dokey. Take it easy. Let us know if there's anything we can do.

So, I paged my therapist two hours ago. She called me back really quickly and we talked for just a minute, because she was about to go back into session. She gave me some "homework" to do and e-mail her, then she was going to call me after that session...an hour ago. She still hasn't called. I'm going to page again at 8. But, I'm getting all worked up in the meantime.


Cashmere - Dec 19, 2005 2:52:23 pm PST #624 of 10001
Now tagless for your comfort.

Christmas treet is my favorite typo of the season

Hee. That's what I should call those easy-bake toll-house cut-out cheating cookies I got at the store last week in case I needed them.


Aims - Dec 19, 2005 3:00:52 pm PST #625 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.

Better than a Christmas teet.


Topic!Cindy - Dec 19, 2005 3:02:03 pm PST #626 of 10001
What is even happening?

I suppose that depends.


Hil R. - Dec 19, 2005 3:11:34 pm PST #627 of 10001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Ok, question two, what would a reasonable hourly rate be? I have no idea what tutoring runs.

The tutoring I've done, I'll generally quote either $40 or $35 an hour, but in some cases I'll go down to $25. Most grad students I know who tutor charge something similar; undergrads mostly charge in the $20-$30 range.


Hil R. - Dec 19, 2005 3:13:39 pm PST #628 of 10001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Fay, lots of work-out-for-the-best~ma.