Rather than ramble on and on about things that might not be pertinent to your relationship, I suggest you go browse Betty Dodson's website: [link] .

(Obviously, the topics contained therein are NSFW.)

Interesting. Thanks, Teppy.

Anyone want a 9 year old boy? He vaccuums and is good 90% of the time.

And to think I was pleased with my own who is also good 90% of the time, but treats the vacuum and its plugged in cord as if it were a new piece of gym equipment.

While the principal is telling me this, all on speakerphone with CJ right there, he also comments on how CJ is "such a sweet boy who is not malicious as all".

And he is not. But the boy has a problem with impulse control. I think.

I still don't really know what happened, other than he "somehow" hit a girl in his class. In the jaw.

This is not my son. I don't know who this child is.

Does "somehow" mean it happen by accident, as in he was goofing around, didn't see her, or didn't properly assess his reach, or was there some sort of intent? Because honestly Suzi, if he hit her by accident while being too boisterous, he's just being a little boy. As near as I can tell, the only difference between two year old boys and 9/10 year old boys is a matter of size, appetite, and vocabulary.

MG, it might be counterproductive to make baseball contingent on behavior, since an organized physical activity like that will benefit him the most.

seconded. The more Ben is outside, the better he is when he's inside. Their energy is incredible, and they don't have any clue of their strength at this age. They still feel like little kids.

If this was an accident, I feel sort of badly for him that he's even gotten detention.

How old is she, Gris? I suspect she's close to your age, meaning pretty young, yes?

If you ever listen to Lovelines, with Dr. Drew Pinsky (who is actually an MD, unlike most radio "doctors", and specializes in sex-related issues), he frequently states that many women just aren't phyically ready to have sex to the point of orgasm until they are much older. Remember that women hit their sexul peak in their thirties.

There's a good chance that it's not psychiatric in nature, but physical, Gris. Which is maybe not what you wanted to hear, but it's likely the case -- she's just physically not very capable of enjoying sex, or reaching orgasm yet.

Remember that women hit their sexul peak in their thirties.

They SO do. t /loving my 30s, oh yes, I am

Also taking medication often adds to difficulty/inability to orgasm.

And finally, I think that most women don't orgasm just from vaginal intercourse -- they need clitoral stimulation, too.

You're a GOOD boyfriend, BTW.

For those keeping track at home...

Library fines are taken care of. $1125 went down to $61.25 when I begged, which was mostly covered by work (because they're very nice).

I'm feeling accomplished.

GO VW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I think that most women don't orgasm just from vaginal intercourse -- they need clitoral stimulation, too.

This is ALSO something that Dr. Drew says quite regularly.

I think that most women don't orgasm just from vaginal intercourse -- they need clitoral stimulation, too.

This is ALSO something that Dr. Drew says quite regularly.

And, speaking for my people, we appreciate the hell out of it.

Yay, vw!