Lorne: Take care of yourself and ah, make sure fluffy is getting enough love. Gunn: Did he have anything? Fred: No. And who's fluffy? Are you fluffy? Gunn: He called me fluffy? Fred: He said make sure…wait. You don't think he was referring to anything of mine that's fluffy, do you? Because that would just be inappropriate.

'Conviction (1)'


Natter 40: The Nice One  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


shrift - Nov 11, 2005 8:20:17 am PST #3054 of 10006
"You can't put a price on the joy of not giving a shit." -Zenkitty

I don't hang out in fanfic circles- are there a lot of guys as idiotic as this woman describes?

Lucy's a friend of mine. And yeah, we've been butting heads with this kind of idiocy in comics fandom quite often.

In fact, one person I knew from comics fandom had a meltdown in the comments thread, and now I know why I hadn't really got on with him these past few years.


Sophia Brooks - Nov 11, 2005 8:21:02 am PST #3055 of 10006
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

I heard back from boss (using cat excuse) and am off the hook! Now I get to worry about people talking about me all weekend long.... (yes I am self-centered, why do you ask?)

WRT to the male privilidge, I have not personally come across anything like that, but I am not in those circles. I did have a male friend who is very into video games tell me that a game with 20% sales to women would be considered a woman's game-- and then we are back to the thing where making something feminine makes it undesirable, while making it masculine can sometimes make it neutral.


Allyson - Nov 11, 2005 8:21:59 am PST #3056 of 10006
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

Was it the guy who is OMG SO OPPRESSED because women hold all the power in America?


§ ita § - Nov 11, 2005 8:23:37 am PST #3057 of 10006
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

I think there's a lot of "poisoning" of "our space" by the "other" when it comes to majority privilege -- it's just that the majority has most of the spaces, and when it gets pissy, it gets pissy big.

There are also, apparently, a lot of quotation marks.

Can we skip over today?


Nora Deirdre - Nov 11, 2005 8:25:30 am PST #3058 of 10006
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Now I get to worry about people talking about me all weekend long....

This is what they will say.

"Sophia was so smart to get out of this 2 day hell."


Jessica - Nov 11, 2005 8:27:28 am PST #3059 of 10006
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

Can we skip over today?

Gods, yes.

Let's go straight to tomorrow, which is not only THE WEEKEND but also MY BIRTHDAY. It will be a much better day.


tommyrot - Nov 11, 2005 8:28:06 am PST #3060 of 10006
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

Happy Birthday-eve, Jessica!


juliana - Nov 11, 2005 8:30:52 am PST #3061 of 10006
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

I don't hang out in fanfic circles- are there a lot of guys as idiotic as this woman describes?

I'm not in fanfic circles, either, but I do see a lot of that same sort of response whenever any women found a "women-oriented" theater. There's a lot of mocking and rolling-of-eyes, and demands for inclusion, because if excluding women is wrong, so is excluding men.


brenda m - Nov 11, 2005 8:32:40 am PST #3062 of 10006
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I vote that Jessica gets her way on this.


shrift - Nov 11, 2005 8:36:10 am PST #3063 of 10006
"You can't put a price on the joy of not giving a shit." -Zenkitty

Was it the guy who is OMG SO OPPRESSED because women hold all the power in America?

His lj name is houster_gold. The one who doesn't watch TV yet insists that us womens RESPECT HIS AUTHORITAH.

The best part, I think, is when he and his little friends went apeshit over what he thought was implied homophobia. But since he knows everything there is to know about everything ever (why should he cite? he's the expert here!), he didn't realize that "honey" has long been used as a patronizing term for women, and wasn't about how many rubber duckies he has in his closet.