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Spike's Bitches 27: I'm Embarrassed for Our Kind.  

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flea - Dec 14, 2005 5:47:02 am PST #9793 of 10003
information libertarian

Dude, in my google, I found stats that a ruptured uterus results in infant mortality rates of 80%, so your cousin seems to have been lucky. I hope they didn't have to do a hysterectomy - it doesn't seem necessary in most cases. I'm glad they're doing okay and now in a position to get good care (insert standard rant against the US medical system's inequities).

I also smell a medical malpractice case, if the family thinks that way. Not to check a woman with pre-term labor for dilation seems wrongity wrong.


P.M. Marc - Dec 14, 2005 5:49:19 am PST #9794 of 10003
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Damn, Cash. That's freakin' criminal.

Here's to a speedy recovery to them both.

55 hours is two and a half days. The longest non-section labor I've heard about in my circles was about four days. When we went in for induction, we were prepared for three days (obviously, that didn't happen) WCS.

Lillian has a cold. I'm home with her while Paul goes in for a couple of hours, then he's with her while I work. Poor girl. She's all slightly feverish and sad.


Connie Neil - Dec 14, 2005 5:49:33 am PST #9795 of 10003
brillig

There's a cop in my boss' office talking to my boss and the accountant. Disturbing.


Cashmere - Dec 14, 2005 5:50:21 am PST #9796 of 10003
Now tagless for your comfort.

I also smell a medical malpractice case, if the family thinks that way. Not to check a woman with pre-term labor for dilation seems wrongity wrong.

I know! I can't imagine it, either. But I'm getting information second-hand so I want wait until I have a full update to start ranting. This is her third child and her second was slightly premature, too. I'm fully confident they'll get excellent care from here on out but it just freaked me out because she is literally due the same day I am and the thought of going into labor now scares the shit out of me.


SuziQ - Dec 14, 2005 5:53:02 am PST #9797 of 10003
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

I was in moderate labor with K-Bug for 3 days before it kicked into high gear. Then it was another 10 hours or so. They were ready to do a C-section if I didn't have her by 10am. She shoved her way out at 10:05!


Topic!Cindy - Dec 14, 2005 5:56:58 am PST #9798 of 10003
What is even happening?

My cousin was in hard labor. I went away for the weekend, Friday evening, expecting the baby to be born that night. I got home Sunday, and she still wasn't born.

She had some trouble with her thermostat after that, for a while, and had to stay in the hospital for some extra time, but that was in 1988, and the details are very foggy in my mind, now that the child is in her senior year of high school.


Jen - Dec 14, 2005 6:07:38 am PST #9799 of 10003
love's a dream you enter though I shake and shake and shake you

did NOT manually check her for dilation--but sent her home

OMGWTFCriminalNegligence. That's really awful; it takes three seconds to put on a sterile glove and do a quick check, and it's not like it's an MRI and costs several thousand dollars to do it.

I'm sending good vibes for all.


Trudy Booth - Dec 14, 2005 6:21:10 am PST #9800 of 10003
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

it just freaked me out because she is literally due the same day I am and the thought of going into labor now scares the shit out of me.

That has to be frightening in a primal way.


WindSparrow - Dec 14, 2005 6:21:10 am PST #9801 of 10003
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Hugs and ~ma to Cash and family.


Laura - Dec 14, 2005 6:26:08 am PST #9802 of 10003
Our wings are not tired.

How awful Cashmere. It is mind blowing that she wasn't checked.

it just freaked me out because she is literally due the same day I am and the thought of going into labor now scares the shit out of me.

Labor is scary! I don't understand why we are not all only children. Who knows why I did it a second time. And yet we do and the overwhelming majority of us get through without damage. Fortunately what happened to her is the very rare exception.

How was your previous delivery?