Pre-Raph Plei!

sumi, I think I might just have gone in and told the professional, "I have a reservation that I'm going to be late for. It's too late to cancel, I have to go. I just wanted to let you know the phones won't be manned for a while." Either that, or walk out without saying a word. After all, you had plans, the student was sent on the spur of the moment, and nobody cleared anything with you beforehand. But then I'm a hardass and a mean bitch.

I would certainly at least bring this up when you've thought it through, possibly rehearsed it and thought of responses to several different reactions. I'd definitely not let it pass unchallenged. That way lies being walked on at their convenience, and you really don't have to accept that.

I won't "let" Joe shave his goatee, even though I met and fell in love with him without it. It just looks more right than without.

That said, if he did shave it, I'd not freak out.

I won't "let" Joe shave his goatee, even though I met and fell in love with him without it. It just looks more right than without.

But you're not going to let him do the Satan's Headbanger look he did in high school? Such a shame. I adored that hair.

Course, I was thirteen. I also adored... well, heck. What did I like at thirteen?

Okay! Off to school! Yaaaay Algebra! And midterms being handed in! And 16th-century mathematics! And... bleh.

I just realized that I hadn't eaten anything but two small blueberry muffins since 11am yesterday. No wonder I have a headache.

Sometimes I'm stupid.

Wow, Plei, you had Kay's hair!

Except redder. I think Ple's is thicker too. You could cut off Ple's braid and use it to dock the Queen Mary.

You should all take it on faith when I say I've probably seen more long-to-short makeovers than all of you combined. Way more women have long hair than look good with it. Particularly women with very fine bones and very thick hair - the hair can completely dominate the facial features, diminishing their cheekbones and eyes.

That noted, I completely appreciate that some women just enjoy the sensual feel of long luxurious locks. I think you can have a hairstyle that makes your hair look good, but doesn't work for your face.

The most common mistake I see, though, is with mid length styles that are too wide. Too much horizontal hair is generally bad.

I did look like a boy, I accept that. Having the hair blonde means people look longer, and it rarely happens anymore, but big lips and big tits, and I still got called Mr.

I just didn't care. There are many worse things to be called. Admittedly, I didn't much like to be the guy I must have looked like (kinda wimpy), but there you go. Now I think I make a much better guy.

mid length styles that are too wide. Too much horizontal hair is generally bad.

Eww, yeah. Mushroom head.

Women who have longish curly hair who go into orbit tend to get nasty space-hair.

eta: Worst. Space-hair. Ever: [link]

Regular kind of space-hair: [link]

the whatever friend would be all swoony or noddy until I got to how tall he was and many MANY of them would PHYSICALLY RECOIL.

And then say, "oh, I could NEVER date a man shorter than I am".

"Why not?"

More often than not the answer was "How would I wear heels?"

My best friend is 6 feet tall and routinely wears 3- to 4-inch heels on dates, even when the guy isn't 6' 4". Though she didn't become that confident until she got out of college. Before then, it was flats all the way.

I think you can have a hairstyle that makes your hair look good, but doesn't work for your face.

This is all I really mean when I criticize hair-obsessed guys. They seem to take into account ONLY the hair, and not how it looks ON the woman.

eta: Worst. Space-hair. Ever: [link]

That seems hazardous.