Damn it! You know what? I'm sick of this crap. I'm sick of being the guy who eats insects and gets the funny syphilis. As of this moment, it's over. I'm finished being everybody's butt monkey!

Xander ,'Lessons'


Spike's Bitches 27: I'm Embarrassed for Our Kind.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Nora Deirdre - Nov 17, 2005 10:36:12 am PST #5297 of 10003
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

dilemma:

a client has invited me and a co-worker out to lunch (as well as another person who helped with the event not in our office) to thank us for a job well done with the conference we did for him. My co-worker refuses to go, she doesn't "do lunch" and has declined. I am annoyed about this because we are in a service oriented office and schmoozing with nice people, even though they are clients, is generally a good thing to do. I am not sure if I should go with my coworker not going, because she was the primary point of contact, and I only met him (the client) on site. But I feel bad blowing him off altogether and feel like *someone* should go to this lunch and be thanked.

Am I over thinking this? SHould I just tell him our office is busy that week? Should I go and steel myself for awkward social interaction? I don't know what to do.


sj - Nov 17, 2005 10:37:25 am PST #5298 of 10003
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Nora, I think you should go. It makes you look good, at the very least.


juliana - Nov 17, 2005 10:40:14 am PST #5299 of 10003
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

Nora, go. It'll be good for you.


Frankenbuddha - Nov 17, 2005 10:44:19 am PST #5300 of 10003
"We are the Goon Squad and we're coming to town...Beep! Beep!" - David Bowie, "Fashion"

My co-worker refuses to go, she doesn't "do lunch" and has declined.

Is she philisophically opposed to the idea of "doing lunch" or something, because if so, a world of @@


Burrell - Nov 17, 2005 10:44:52 am PST #5301 of 10003
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Happy Birthday, Jilli!

Having a baby shrinks you.

At least, it feels like it.

I have this weird vertigo every time I think back to how BIG my mother seemed and then realize that I'm about the same size that she used to be. And I feel about the same size I've always been. So for me, having a baby has had the strange effect of shrinking MY MOTHER.


Nora Deirdre - Nov 17, 2005 10:45:20 am PST #5302 of 10003
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Frank, you are correct, and I invite you to join me in the @@.


Frankenbuddha - Nov 17, 2005 10:47:46 am PST #5303 of 10003
"We are the Goon Squad and we're coming to town...Beep! Beep!" - David Bowie, "Fashion"

Frank, you are correct, and I invite you to join me in the @@.

Well maybe you should go and you can all talk smack about your cow-orker.


Nora Deirdre - Nov 17, 2005 10:50:23 am PST #5304 of 10003
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

heh. tempting but probably not professional.

I have accepted their lovely lunch invitation.


Nora Deirdre - Nov 17, 2005 10:51:45 am PST #5305 of 10003
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

In other news, I still HATE HATE HATE eyedrops. Even though I've been using them 4x a day for a week.


§ ita § - Nov 17, 2005 10:52:16 am PST #5306 of 10003
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

You should go, Nora.