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Spike's Bitches 27: I'm Embarrassed for Our Kind.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


P.M. Marc - Nov 09, 2005 8:26:03 pm PST #3923 of 10003
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Infant care closer in (as in, practical for us daycare) looks to be running between $330-$370 a week.

I keep hoping we'll get lucky and have a spot magically open at the on campus daycare. I should have Paul call again and see if they're still thinking 18-24 months until they have an opening.


Burrell - Nov 09, 2005 8:55:35 pm PST #3924 of 10003
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Also, they provide breakfast, lunch, and snack, which is a plus.

Goodness me, yes. Our center provides those meals as well, although generally I just feed Frances her breakfast at home. But once it becomes two breakfasts, I may opt to just arrive at daycare earlier and let them take care of that one.

My one big issue with the Salvation Army is the whole deal where they got special permission from the government to be able to discriminate in their hiring practices. But that's just me.

What's important is that you like the space and you like the care givers. If you got a good feel from the caregivers, I'm sure that Annabel is going to be happy.


Susan W. - Nov 09, 2005 9:04:05 pm PST #3925 of 10003
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

My one big issue with the Salvation Army is the whole deal where they got special permission from the government to be able to discriminate in their hiring practices. But that's just me.

I'd forgotten about that. But right now it's a reasonably affordable daycare with immediate openings five minutes from my house whose programs, staff, and facilities I feel good about. I'll be more virtuous and consistent when my life settles down a bit.


Lee - Nov 09, 2005 9:11:15 pm PST #3926 of 10003
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

lalala

nothing to see here


Susan W. - Nov 09, 2005 9:16:03 pm PST #3927 of 10003
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

OK, that's cool. Thanks, Perkins.


Nora Deirdre - Nov 10, 2005 2:27:55 am PST #3928 of 10003
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Betsy, I am so sorry that Will is having a tough time in band. I hope hope hope that you all can get the teacher on your side. Man. Parenthood is so very hard.

Had a fun night last night- it was a long day(conference+class) but we went to a very nice place in Central Square where my friend works and we ate delicious food and toddled back to the hotel and watched the end of Lost.

My right eye is all bloodshot to the extreme again (this happened again, to the same eye, about a month ago)so I guess I have to call the doctor and make sure I don't have a brain disease or something.

Blahhhhhhhhh.

Good news: no work tomorrow!


brenda m - Nov 10, 2005 2:49:15 am PST #3929 of 10003
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

But right now it's a reasonably affordable daycare with immediate openings five minutes from my house whose programs, staff, and facilities I feel good about.

Yeah, at this stage, I thinnk you have to make some compromises, hard as it would be.

I am just agog at the cost. I don't know how single parents do it, I swear. I mean, I make reasonable money, and I couldn't swing that at all. In a two parent/two income situation it would be different, but that's still a serious chunk of money.

Good luck to Will, I hope you and he and band teacher find a way to turn things around.


vw bug - Nov 10, 2005 4:02:44 am PST #3930 of 10003
Mostly lurking...

Betsy, my heart just aches for Will. I hope you guys are able to work something out with the teacher.

Susan, I'm so thrilled for you that everything is falling into place with this job and daycare and everything. It's gonna be tough...especially at the beginning, but you SO can do this.

I am feeling a little better this morning. Hopefully it will last long enough for me to get some things accomplished.


Ginger - Nov 10, 2005 4:11:24 am PST #3931 of 10003
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

This will be my life for the forseeable future--working, writing, and trying to be a decent wife and mother.

You know, it sounds like a pretty good life to me. I'm glad everything worked out about the job. Susan.

Yay for solid food for Lily! Nora's eye should instantly get better and vw's asthma should return to the space-time dimension from which it came.

Poor Will. Hell is other children, but a teacher should recognize that.

I'm back in my hobbit hole, and my mother and sister are 250 miles away.


vw bug - Nov 10, 2005 4:12:12 am PST #3932 of 10003
Mostly lurking...

Welcome back, Ginger!