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Apparently, my library no longer charges fines, which I find odd
The cost of keeping track of fines is often more than the fines bring in, and (where my library is, in an urban neighborhood) it's just not a good idea to have money around without much security.
Jessica, I have no doubt that you and your hubby would make very pretty babies, and that you could work out the space issues. My parents had two kids in a 1 bdrm apartment in Boston and NYC until my oldest sister was 6.
The cost of keeping track of fines is often more than the fines bring in, and (where my library is, in an urban neighborhood) it's just not a good idea to have money around without much security.
We're a piddly little town, so I am not sure the security is an issue. It's not likely to be a lot of money, and our crime rate is low. A lot of private funding (from the citizens, but through fund-raising, not taxes) went into a complete rehab of the library a couple of years back, and I expect maybe it was in response to that. Our library has it's own Friends of the ________ organization of Patrons.
Apparently, my library no longer charges finesThis is how I pay for my books there though... Also how I occasionally keep them from closing my account when I am on more of a book buying spree.
(See, now E's going to come home and I'm going to be all "So, we're having a baby TOMORROW, is that okay?" And he's going to be all "Um?" And I'm going to be all "No, I planned the whole thing out! We're turning the fire escape into the baby's room! It'll be fine!")Any chance you can get a Web cam installed before this conversation? Because funn.eee.
We should probably hold ourselves back from shipping too much to Perkins (point!) so that -t does not have to get it all back to NO, or wherever they end up. I'm thinking the BayAreaistas can take her out to lunch one day and then Target or Bed Bath & Beyond, arm her with the little guns you use to register and make her pick out new stuff.
A good point.
Let's do a two-stage thing.
Stage one:
Care package. Little things. Edible things. Hand made things.
Stage two:
Shower. We can include a card in the care package telling her we'll throw one once she's settled and suggesting some websites to register on. We can say either some of us will take her or they can do it at their leisure if an outing is too overwhelming.
Jess, we have a just-barely 10x10 bedroom. We can't, with the way the doors and the heat registers are set up, fit a regular crib in here, even with our dressers moved out. I measured. I wept.
Then Susan lent me her Amby baby hammock. OMG, bless Susan so much. Tiny, tiny footprint. Happy, happy baby and parents. If we had a bigger, firmer bed (we have a full), I probably would have gone with something like the Cuddle Nest co-sleeper.
We're transitioning the office to a baby room, slowly. It's down to one computer and three computer-related bookshelves.
We're a piddly little town, so I am not sure the security is an issue.
Then I'd bet that it's just more trouble than it's worth to keep track of them and try to get people to pay the $0.25 they owe on a book they swear up and down they returned on-time and it must be the library's mistake...
t /almost a rant
Ambys are wonderful. I'm a total Amby evangelist, because I'm convinced it's a big part of the reason Annabel was such a good sleeper starting so young.
The Seattle library assesses fines, but doesn't make any major effort to collect them until they're above $10 or so. I've owed $0.45 forever, and they don't even mention the fine's existence when I check out books. I think if you owe more than $15 you can't use interlibrary loan, which would be a real penalty for Research Girl me, and eventually I hear they send you Stern Notices.
I've owed $0.45 forever
Exactly. In this age of hiring freezes & declining budges, fewer people are asked to do more work. Chasing down people who owe $0.45 is not a good way to spend my time. Unfortunately, I still have to spend time telling students they may not eat their french fries near the rare book room.
I'm thinking the BayAreaistas can take her out to lunch one day and then Target or Bed Bath & Beyond, arm her with the little guns you use to register and make her pick out new stuff.
This sounds like an excellent idea. Any idea how long she's going to be staying in California? Since I'm coming out to visit, I may just bring her tiara along instead of mailing it. Otherwise, I'll just send it out as one more item for the care package.
We can include a card in the care package
Card is good. Who would we send the money to in order to contribute to it? Perkins, as point, would you be willing to collect the dough?
Would I be a horrible person if I suggested stashing the (Jessica's) baby's bed in the unused fireplace?