Remember that sex we were planning to have, ever again?

Zoe ,'Our Mrs. Reynolds'


Spike's Bitches 26: Damn right I'm impure!  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


juliana - Sep 09, 2005 10:25:30 am PDT #1994 of 10001
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

{{{{{vw}}}}}}}

We're here, sweetie.


vw bug - Sep 09, 2005 10:25:41 am PDT #1995 of 10001
Mostly lurking...

School's ok. I'm actually liking my biology class. Found out that my Advanced Comp class is going to be doing some really basic things like resume writing and personal statement writing, which I already have and am quite happy with, but whatever. Easy A, I guess.


P.M. Marc - Sep 09, 2005 10:26:23 am PDT #1996 of 10001
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

VW, I hope the nap helps.


Betsy HP - Sep 09, 2005 10:26:47 am PDT #1997 of 10001
If I only had a brain...

Tom's dr. won't give him a vasectomy and mine won't give me an IUD because we're too young and those are options for "families." i.e., people with children.

MORONS. EVIL IDIOTS.

It used to be true that the IUD was hard to insert on a woman who hadn't been pregnant before, but I don't think that's true any longer.


P.M. Marc - Sep 09, 2005 10:27:22 am PDT #1998 of 10001
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

You deserve an easy A.

It's your class reward for doing so well in all the actually tough ones.


Toddson - Sep 09, 2005 10:27:56 am PDT #1999 of 10001
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

vw, I hope the nap helps and things look better soon.


JZ - Sep 09, 2005 10:28:10 am PDT #2000 of 10001
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

{{{vw}}} Meds, nap, and then call Nora and have her come over and feed you cookies and such.


Betsy HP - Sep 09, 2005 10:28:19 am PDT #2001 of 10001
If I only had a brain...

Sometimes a nap helps a lot, VW.

There used to be a doctor's rule of thumb that a woman couldn't get her tubes tied unless her age times the number of children was over 120.


Nora Deirdre - Sep 09, 2005 10:31:06 am PDT #2002 of 10001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

It's far from the first time I've heard of doctors refusing to do this, but it always sounds so wrong; smug, paternalistic, infantilizing of the patient.

It is strange. I suppose if we pushed we'd be able to get something done. But my doctor said, "the Nuva Ring is reliable and inexpensive, right? Is there any reason you NEED to switch to something permanant (or semi-perm) at this time?" And I agreed. Even though I don't want kids, making a choice to NOT have them seems like a big commitment. (that's more the vasectomy vibe)

My doctor says she's seen women go on the IUD and regret it because they changed their minds later and had difficulty conceiving. I don't know. I changed the subject quick because I do like her in many other ways.


Toddson - Sep 09, 2005 10:31:22 am PDT #2003 of 10001
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

erika, I saw this in the paper yesterday and thought you'd appreciate it:

"The death of a 45-year-old lawyer discovered in the trunk of a burning car is ruled a homicide."

It's just ... was there any doubt?