OK. Just called another center director about setting up a tour. She's sending me info and having me call back next week about a time, since the only day she was free this week was Thursday, and that's my interview. I asked what people in my circumstances do, since all the centers have waiting lists, etc. She said hire nannies (which I'm guessing is prohibitively expensive) or find someone to do nanny share with.
Fuck. My life is fucked beyond fixing. Fuck fuck fuck. This is never going to work.
(Yes, I know, i'm doing it again.)
Anyway, I'm going to step away from this soon. I need to write my pages for the day, and finish a freelance job I've already been paid for. Tomorrow I'll talk to my neighbor and maybe some of the other SAHMs from church, see how they'd feel about being paid the going rate for in-home care until something crops up.
Sometimes this stuff takes time, I'll bet.
Sorry it is so frustrating.
I'm sure something will come together when it's needed. Good luck on the interview on Thursday.
Susan, one of my friends has been doing a nanny share arrangement for her daughter. I don't know exactly what it costs, but it can't be that much (she and her husband are both grad students.) Might be worth looking into.
This is
really
making me regret making such a flashy grand exit when I quit that moms group. Tons of local SAHMs there....
yes, but weren't they jerks?
No, just more conservative than me, and didn't seem to get that I couldn't be persuaded with more Bible verses.
Susan, you might ask at UW if there is a listserv or something where you could make an inquiry about a temporary nanny share or other care. My university has a Parents' List, and the Libraries have their own list for questions like these.
Hello, Bitches!
Susan, it takes time and patience. It will be alright. Be methodical and persistent and you will find something. There are a lot of options but they have to all be pursued at the same time.
That's on the website Plei mentioned, Sparky--I can't access the list as a potential employee, since you need a current UW ID, but I forwarded the link to DH.
