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Susan W. - Aug 30, 2005 9:36:43 am PDT #9563 of 10001
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

OK, mild panic attack here.

I just called a daycare center recommended by a friend. They don't expect to have an opening in the toddler room until December.

What the hell am I going to do with Annabel if I get this job? I figured I could find a SAHM to look after her for a month or so, but 3-4 months!?


Susan W. - Aug 30, 2005 9:37:08 am PDT #9564 of 10001
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

I mean, really, what do people do? I can't be the only person who's ever been in these circumstances.


Aims - Aug 30, 2005 9:38:14 am PDT #9565 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.

People put their kids on lists before they are even born. Em is on 2 others that she has been on for over a year and they still haven't called, but I refuse to take her off just in case.


Betsy HP - Aug 30, 2005 9:39:40 am PDT #9566 of 10001
If I only had a brain...

You have to spread a wide net. Childcare-hunting is like job-hunting, you can't assume that one application suffices. You apply everywhere you can think of to get that one slot. Infants are harder to place than toddlers.

Aren't you a member of a church? The mother's organization/nursery staff may well know of somebody appropriate.


P.M. Marc - Aug 30, 2005 9:41:23 am PDT #9567 of 10001
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Susan, check the U's HR site. I think they have info in addition to the packet they give you.


Susan W. - Aug 30, 2005 9:45:27 am PDT #9568 of 10001
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

People put their kids on lists before they are even born.

I don't have a time machine!

I mean, I can't be the only woman who's tried SAHM/work from home and thought, you know, this isn't working. And you can't place the child before you have a job, because until you have the job you don't have money!

ARRRRRGHHHHHHH!!!@!!!!!!!!


Aims - Aug 30, 2005 9:47:36 am PDT #9569 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.

I don't have a time machine!

Sillyhead - you shouldda registered for one!! *g*

Take Betsy's suggestion about the church people, look on Craigs List.


askye - Aug 30, 2005 9:51:46 am PDT #9570 of 10001
Thrive to spite them

CHeck your church and see if they have a program, if they don't ask what they recommend. Talk to other Moms, call other churches.

I see two churches close to where I live advertising day care.


dw - Aug 30, 2005 9:55:25 am PDT #9571 of 10001
Silence means security silence means approval

CHeck your church and see if they have a program, if they don't ask what they recommend.

The one problem with this is that the church is on Queen Anne while potential work would be in the U District. And getting from QA to the U District is very, very tough.


Susan W. - Aug 30, 2005 9:57:39 am PDT #9572 of 10001
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

My church has a daycare (well, a daycare that uses the building), but it's in a different neighborhood from where we live and from UW, and it'd make the commute obnoxiously complicated. Did I mention the Catholic church near my house won't take them till they're potty-trained?

I'm looking at the UW stuff, and asked DH to look into some of the stuff where you have to have a current ID to access it.

Part of my stress is that it's not easy to search out these places, even when you pay the money to sign up for a service that's supposed to help you find places, which I did yesterday.