People put their kids on lists before they are even born.

I don't have a time machine!

I mean, I can't be the only woman who's tried SAHM/work from home and thought, you know, this isn't working. And you can't place the child before you have a job, because until you have the job you don't have money!

ARRRRRGHHHHHHH!!!@!!!!!!!!

I don't have a time machine!

Sillyhead - you shouldda registered for one!! *g*

Take Betsy's suggestion about the church people, look on Craigs List.

CHeck your church and see if they have a program, if they don't ask what they recommend. Talk to other Moms, call other churches.

I see two churches close to where I live advertising day care.

CHeck your church and see if they have a program, if they don't ask what they recommend.

The one problem with this is that the church is on Queen Anne while potential work would be in the U District. And getting from QA to the U District is very, very tough.

My church has a daycare (well, a daycare that uses the building), but it's in a different neighborhood from where we live and from UW, and it'd make the commute obnoxiously complicated. Did I mention the Catholic church near my house won't take them till they're potty-trained?

I'm looking at the UW stuff, and asked DH to look into some of the stuff where you have to have a current ID to access it.

Part of my stress is that it's not easy to search out these places, even when you pay the money to sign up for a service that's supposed to help you find places, which I did yesterday.

OK. Just called another center director about setting up a tour. She's sending me info and having me call back next week about a time, since the only day she was free this week was Thursday, and that's my interview. I asked what people in my circumstances do, since all the centers have waiting lists, etc. She said hire nannies (which I'm guessing is prohibitively expensive) or find someone to do nanny share with.

Fuck. My life is fucked beyond fixing. Fuck fuck fuck. This is never going to work.

(Yes, I know, i'm doing it again.)

Anyway, I'm going to step away from this soon. I need to write my pages for the day, and finish a freelance job I've already been paid for. Tomorrow I'll talk to my neighbor and maybe some of the other SAHMs from church, see how they'd feel about being paid the going rate for in-home care until something crops up.

Sometimes this stuff takes time, I'll bet.

Sorry it is so frustrating.

I'm sure something will come together when it's needed. Good luck on the interview on Thursday.

Susan, one of my friends has been doing a nanny share arrangement for her daughter. I don't know exactly what it costs, but it can't be that much (she and her husband are both grad students.) Might be worth looking into.

This is really making me regret making such a flashy grand exit when I quit that moms group. Tons of local SAHMs there....

yes, but weren't they jerks?