Unless she's worried about y'all getting together, comparing notes, and then commiting munity.
She said as much. She doesn't want us bitching about her to each other. I told her I have no desire to bitch about her or anything to these other girls. Time has taught me that all these girls do is pick up a phone and tell her everything that was said. Hi, I'm 31. Not 16.
I have never heard that the Bridesmaids couldn't see each other before the wedding. Or do their hair, or eat.
I think that everyone should show up in pjs, with bedhead, eating Fritos.
I am not telling her anything she doesn't need to know.
That's almost certainly best. That way, she can't get upset about it, and you can't be expected to know if it would have upset her.
I'm with vw -- I sort of want to get married just so I can have Aimee in it and say, "Hey, you know? Show up at some point. It'll be cool."
I'm shaving my head. And putting a ribbon around my bald, shiny head.
She said as much. She doesn't want us bitching about her to each other.
She should stop giving you guys so many reasons to bitch. Paranoid fuckwit.
Ooh, you could paint your scalp! You could even use the wedding colors!
Ooh, you could paint your scalp! You could even use the wedding colors!
You could just dye your hair in the wedding colors.
Thanks, Cashmere. That helps a lot.
DH, by the way, is totally supportive of the not working thing. All worries about the rightness of it are from inside my own brain.
Don't ask don't tell, Aimee. She's going to be very surprised when she realizes on her wedding day that she has no idea what anyone not her is doing. Or maybe not so much with the realizing, but if she's thinking about what her bridesmaids are doing while she's doing her last minute get ready dance, she's one hell of a multitasker.