Preach it. I COMMAND that the universe step off of Aimee WRT to money problems until, at the very least, she's had enough sleep to deal with it better!!!
Could you send that in the direction of the MoH in BF's wedding? She just asked for another $40 for the 5 Star Shower of the Century.
Stay healthy... hang in there till MM gets home and then take a long nap... is that possible?
It will be. I'll throw a fit.
She can just cram it up her yuppie, poseur ass, but then she's not my friend and I'm broke, too. So I've got it like that.
Hil, my sister had pertussis last year. It's not only supremely awful for you, but highly contagious. Call your advice nurse, insurance company or just take yourself to the ER -- whatever you need to do to get some treatment. Okay?
She just asked for another $40 for the 5 Star Shower of the Century.
Ignore ignore ignore ignore.
Man, people just SUCK.
She just asked for another $40 for the 5 Star Shower of the Century.
Two words. "Nuh" and "uh".
Am so tired. However, I have found a new doctor. I swear she's not over 22, but she's smart and nice and she's willing to give me my pap next time so I don't have to find another doctor, and she's going to treat the psoriasis so I don't have to find a third doctor, and she gave me enough flexeril to take it twice a day instead of 15-20 times a month. I love her just for that.
Aimee, tell her you don't have it. If people want your money, they need to involve you in the planning, so that you can have some input, and give an idea of what you can and can't afford.
We had to do this with dh's siblings (some of), for their parents upcoming 50th anniversary. One sibling booked a reception hall, before even approaching most of the rest about "hey, how can we celebrate the folks' anniversary." We're giving them money, but significantly less than the [huge amount we couldn't save in that time] amount for which sibling asked. Sibling is dealing. Sibling has to. You can't squeeze blood from a stone. Sibling should have talked it all over with everyone first, before putting down a downpayment on a hall, for a party most of the rest of us knew nothing about. Oooops. /my issues.
Seriously. You don't have it. Tell her. It'll be over.
She can just cram it up her yuppie, poseur ass, but then she's not my friend and I'm broke, too. So I've got it like that.
The MoH really isn't my friend, either.
I emailed her and told her I can't do it, maybe we should cancel the cabana. I'm NOT looking forward to this shower and I'm really starting to NOT look forward to the wedding. I feel my BF and I drifting far far far apart and I feel like I'm the one paddling away from our friendship. I think differently than she does and other things are more important to me than they are to her and I just want to cry because I feel like I don't want to be her friend anymore.
That's sad, Aimee.
But it happened to me this year, too.
I'm NOT looking forward to this shower and I'm really starting to NOT look forward to the wedding. I feel my BF and I drifting far far far apart and I feel like I'm the one paddling away from our friendship. I think differently than she does and other things are more important to me than they are to her and I just want to cry because I feel like I don't want to be her friend anymore.
Oh, I know this feeling. I'm avoiding a phone call right now because of it, and it's fucking great! it fucking sucks.