I'm NOT looking forward to this shower and I'm really starting to NOT look forward to the wedding. I feel my BF and I drifting far far far apart and I feel like I'm the one paddling away from our friendship. I think differently than she does and other things are more important to me than they are to her and I just want to cry because I feel like I don't want to be her friend anymore.

Oh, I know this feeling. I'm avoiding a phone call right now because of it, and it's fucking great! it fucking sucks.

I feel my BF and I drifting far far far apart and I feel like I'm the one paddling away from our friendship.

That's a sad feeling. I've been there myself, and even when you know you've both just grown apart there's all the good stuff from the past saying, "Hey, come back!"

Oh Aimee, that's so hard. I'm so sorry.

I feel my BF and I drifting far far far apart and I feel like I'm the one paddling away from our friendship. I think differently than she does and other things are more important to me than they are to her and I just want to cry because I feel like I don't want to be her friend anymore.

Is this something that may be better mulled over once sleep has been obtained? Not that I am belittling your pain, but I know in my experience things just seem so overwhelmingly awful if I haven't gotten sleep. And, as a non-parent, I *know* I haven't experienced sleeplessness like y'all have experienced sleeplessness.

Is this the BF that lives in LA and is also your landlord? (I'm just trying to place her in my mind)

Aimée, it's always so sad to hear about friends drifting apart. But there are a couple of reasons to wait before you make any decisions. First, you're really tired right now. Second, weddings and any crisis around a wedding are not real life. Get through all of this as well as you can, and then give her a chance to be your friend again when her world extends beyond her wedding.

Oh, Aimee, that's sad. But also, Sparky is very wise.

{{{Em}}} Poor little thing.

But there are a couple of reasons to wait before you make any decisions. First, you're really tired right now. Second, weddings and any crisis around a wedding are not real life. Get through all of this as well as you can, and then give her a chance to be your friend again when her world extends beyond her wedding.

Yeah! This. Man, I'm glad you people are around to do my thinking for me.

I'm so glad Toto doesn't have Cushings, hopefully the vet will find out what's going on with him Friday and it will be something very treatable.

Poor Aimee and wee Em, I hope you get some sleep and she starts to feel better.

Health~ma for Em, sleep~ma for Aimee.

My post got eaten!

I saw Wedding Crashers last night with the guy, we were both running late and then he had to leave right after so we didn't talk much, just went in and went out.

He was nice looking, kinda cute. From his voice I thought he'd be bigger, but he's not only short but has a very slight build. I'm wondering if my apperance will be an issue for him, if he'll call back. I'm not really worried, just curious.